@Avishkar
Avishkar Gangurde
@Avishkar · 0:49

What stays with you if you remove all the Roles you play?

Ahai. I have a quick question for you. If you remove all the roles that you play in your life role of a brother, sister, mother, father, friend, neighbor, stranger, employee, boss, etc if you remove all the roles that you play, what stays with you? And whatever stays with you, what do you do with it? Is it ugly? Is it good? Is it safe? Is it happy? Let me know. What stays with you?

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@Swatiselflove
Swati Sharma
@Swatiselflove · 2:48
So when we start growing up, it becomes so much an integral part of our personality that we actually find it so very difficult to detach ourselves from those roles that we learn to play somehow. And it becomes a kind of an extension of our entire personality. And that really is something that makes us feel special, that makes us feel loved, and that makes us feel more wanted by the society, by the people around us
@GreyMatter
Himanshi Thakur
@GreyMatter · 2:16

I would stay with me.

But yeah, coming back to your question, I think it would be a good place to just be me, but sometimes I would not like might get lonelier. As long as it's solitary, it's fine, but if it crosses that line and becomes lonely, then I think problem would start. So yeah, this is what I think
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@Avishkar
Avishkar Gangurde
@Avishkar · 0:36

@Swatiselflove

He Swati. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective on the audio. And I hear you. I truly believe you when you said that as a being, we there is this innate need to belong somewhere, to relate somewhere. As one of my mentor, Anil Thomas, he would say that's how we exist. The right exist because of the left, the night exists because of the day. And that's how we relate to each other. Again, thank you so much for your insight
@Wizdaya
Dayakar Rapaka
@Wizdaya · 2:51
So by recognizing and embracing our essence beyond rules, we can live a life that is true to ourselves. So it means being honest with ourselves about what truly matters to us and making choices that reflect our innermost values. So let us remember that even if we remove all the roles we play in life, our essence remains. So we have the power to connect with our true selves and nurture our values and live in alignment with our authentic desires
@Avishkar
Avishkar Gangurde
@Avishkar · 0:49

@GreyMatter

And sometimes it is necessary for most of us to keep some distance from these roles and fill ourselves with love and compassion and joy and happiness so that when we return to that role, we give back the same. Again, thank you so much for sharing. Thank
@Avishkar
Avishkar Gangurde
@Avishkar · 0:52

@Wizdaya

For some, it is a space to notice their own potentials. And I'm glad you could also see something and you could also notice what does it mean to you? Again, thank you so much for your insight
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