You let go of the idea of perfection. You're not perfect. You're real. Let yourself be flawed and allow yourself to make mistakes. Recognize that you're not always going to have it all together. Sometimes your heart's going to break. You are going to get hurt. You're going to feel pain. Don't apologize for being broken. Every time you break, you become a little more alive. You become more open with yourself. You become exposed to your sensibility