This guy at work knows this, but the idea that he wants to come to my house and I'm like, well, my kid is here and my kid knows that I was dating someone else. And like, I wouldn't bring a random person here. And even if me as a fully grown woman wanted to have sex with him, we not doing it in the middle of a Sunday afternoon. My kid is here. So, fellas, what is your take on this whole situation?
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:22
And not that I'm calling him a liar, but I'm. I was like, I think that was just his segue to get my number because we were talking and I think he was looking for just any opening to be like, here's my number. And so once I took down his number and he had mine, I forgot how we. I forgot when we had our first conversation. Our first conversation, actually. I think I know how he actually sends me every morning
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 3:49
But on the other hand, like I said, you know, it's like things have turned upside down nowadays where you have a lot of people out there who just kind of feel like, look, before I decide whether I'm interested in this person or not, I want to sleep with them. Which I think is kind of screwed up
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:59
Like, okay, you see me as just a possible conquest as opposed to let me get to know Ann, to talk to her. So it's kind of. If that's all he wants, I think now I'm getting a little bit. I don't want to use the word offended, but just kind of like, well, find another victim. Like, I don't know. I don't want to say. I don't know what to say
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 1:15
Hey, Angela, thanks for the response. And, you know, you hit the nail right on the head, you know? And I think for a lot of women out there, this. This type of stuff creates some. It creates some confusion because you have some women out there who kind of feel like, well, he's kind of cute, and I kind of like him. So is there a way I can convert this
Robert Jenkins
@Guruball1 · 3:50
I mean, ask him. And if he tells you, whatever, you say, well, listen, I'm not looking for that right now. Or you could just say, listen, I'm not looking right now to be physical or have sex with anybody right now. I just got a relationship. I'm just trying to talk to you and get to know you as friends or whatever. And then if we go to that level, then that's it
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:48
You could be very, like, you could be an elementary school principal and still be a pervert. So your profession has nothing to do with your. Your hobbies and things like that, and whatever someone may be into, and this is simply a dating situation, it is not his career. So two different realms, and that's
Glenn Mann
@GlennPriceMann · 1:07
And then people get upset because people are not on the same page. So I think, you know, having that clarity, even if, you know, sometimes being straight and direct sometimes does, maybe people get a little put off by it. But I think when you're dealing with this, you know, relationships and romance, I think it's better to have CARLSON the table and know exactly what's up than to sort of have any sort of ambiguity that leads to either confusion or other issues
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 0:43
I was like, I gotta, I gotta throw this at him and be like, where are you coming from? But just with all due respect, like, I'm not saying he's wrong if that's what he wants, but just let me know and then let me move accordingly. So I thank you. Thank you so much for taking the time to offer your advice. I really needed it, and I thank you so much
dee felton
@MrDee · 4:51
Like, when you're straightforward, that way they can make the determination, is there somebody who I want to pursue or not? And I think that a lot of times, what women don't understand is that the things that y'all look at as icks or turn offs or this and that they're just part of. Of the whole thing is like a 360 thing. You can't say, oh, I'm gonna give you this, this, this, and exclude this
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:18
Because like I said, there's people that they don't want to be in a relationship right now or ever. They want to have all the fun. They want that companionship from the opposite sex, but they're not trying to be nobody's man. They're not trying to walk down the aisle. And I respect that because people have been through so much. And so I just, like, I just want to know
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 1:54
But he did put out there, hey, what time do you want to meet up and where? So like most things, there's always two sides to every story. 2345 sides. But when I asked him was he looking just for sex, he was like, do I want to sleep with you? He's like, girl, heck, yeah. Have you looked at you? He's cute, but then he's like, but I want so much more from you or with you
And ain't nothing wrong with that, right? Because if that's what you want, then you can tell him, yay. If that's not what you want, you could tell him, Nate. Right. So it's not a big deal. Right. But the very moment where he felt did, this man didn't even know you. And he felt comfortable enough to approach you and that man. Or say, I'd like to lay with you
dee felton
@MrDee · 2:15
Even if y'all got into, like, this long term thing and marriage and all of that, you would still have that little, you know, banter, that little play amongst each other. I think it's just a common thing