Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:59
I don't like people who are flip floppy. They mess with my healing
Hey, swell, fam. Friends, followers. I really don't even know what to title this swell, but I'm just going to tell you guys about a situation. So there's a young lady who, she's very, what I call flip floppy, right?
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:23
And so I'm still emotionally sensitive because I'm going through all of this stuff and God is really purging me and really delivering me and healing me. And I want him to because I want to get this stuff out of me
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:31
And he sends them on purpose and he sends just the one that he knows going to get up under our skin. And that's what he's doing. While you're on your healing journey and trying to be better, he's trying to bring you somebody around you that's bitter and is not able to be on the same level as you. So you won't have to just not talk to her and politely just excuse yourself
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:02
But if this was a guy and you were like talking to him, kind of dating him, and every time you had an interaction with him, you end up feeling worse. If he flip flopped on you without warning and left you confused and emotional, you would dump that dude. And so I know sometimes we're different when it comes to our sister friends and trying to be good and godly, but sounds like you need to dump her and that just means cut off communication
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 5:00
Sometimes God may even send one of his people to visit us in certain situations just to see how much it is that we've really changed. Sometimes God wants to give us another view of where we are and where we're being and where we're going by using the world to do so. So this person in church, I'm not saying to allow them to treat you any kind of way, but sometimes we've got to put our feelings over there in the corner
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 3:00
Like, hey, how are you doing? Maybe that's all you can give at this point because the fact that you are upset like that, that literally tells you everything you need to know. And you sound like you're super fed up. You do. And I'm sorry that you're hurting like this. But yeah, sometimes we have to make these hard decisions. I know I've had to
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 1:30
Hey, sis. I don't like hot and cold people either. I don't. I don't like hot and cold people. I know that we have days where we may not be in the best mood. We may have a day where you catch us and we're not in the best headspace. And so we might have a little bit of an attitude and we might snap, be snappy, or we may not want to talk at all because we're dealing with some things
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 2:37
Wow. I apologize that that happened to you. I can understand how you will have hurt and maybe I don't want to speak what your emotions are towards this experience. I can understand. I believe you use the word confusing in terms of it going back and forth. And I can definitely understand how that could be confusing because who wants to deal with that level of hurt and or that level of confusion? Let me just stick with that. Who wants to deal with that level of confusion?
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 3:52
And so they constantly recreate situations because playing the victim is a lot easier than admitting that there are some deficiencies in my character and my personality. And I need to fix these things so that I can be a better person. Because healing does take work and healing is sometimes ugly and healing is sometimes not good. And when I say it's not good, I mean it doesn't feel good. And so some people just would rather not do it