Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:37
Rant - an example of why coparenting does not work. Why do we have to insert ourselves?
Ah, so thinking about the, you know, topics that we've had lately. You know, as you know, yesterday we had a lot of different topics about being a dad, being a father, having a dad or a father, things of that nature. We look at those, we have those topics, right, that we talk about. And then I did a topic about, you know, being a mom, a mother of the child versus a baby mama, right?
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
She ain't been spending time with you. What's going on? You know what I'm saying? What's up is something I can do to help you so that you and her can spend more time together. And so I took that approach to it versus you need to get it. No, if you take a different approach. And so I think in that video. It just bothered me because I'm like, this is why Coparenting doesn't work
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:31
And so my heart goes out to all children that are in these types of situations because, yeah, it'll get easier as they get older because they're able to be more independent in their decision making, and they will decide how much involvement they want to have in their father's or parents life. And they can take the lead on these things because once she gets a car, she can just drive to see her dad
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:47
And I have children as well, but the boundaries don't seem to exist. And I'm just like, I'm tired of it, honestly. I love the little boy. He's a sweetheart. He is autistic. So it's amazing seeing how he sees the world and all of that great stuff. But the mama and we don't live together, me and him
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:37
It says, I'm sorry that, you know, you're going through that, and that sucks. Right? I know this is going to sound funny, but I would suggest you send him the link for Keith. Keitha's chat chit at chitchat with KK. She a co parenting one, right, where we talk about it because he needs boundaries and he has to have boundaries. And I know women like that, right? That do that. And that's crazy
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 1:48
They don't want to have him be her husband and be over the household, but yet they want every detail of his life to have to be run through her. And what a lot of women do, and my boyfriend's baby mama is the same way. As soon as something goes down, is that threat of child support or I'm going to go to court and get a custody order. And so this is why some men are at the whim of these women
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:54
And because they are a blessing, let me do whatever I can to not cause any hurt, harm, trauma, pain to my child, because they don't have enough of that when they get grown. So let me just let my child be a child and not have to deal with these adult issues. But so often people don't. And they talk to the and I hate this, too
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 3:33
And I was, like, looking at people that was agreeing with her. I was like, you must got a bad situation with your baby daddy or with your children's father. Like, you must got a bad situation because that's the only way you could agree with that, right? The only way you could. That foolishness. And again, popping up. I'm not even talking about a baby, a child's mother or father popping up. I'm just talking about anybody in general