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Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:59

Healing to Heal - removing bitterness and resentment

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You. So I hello, swell fam. Friends, followers. So I have, of course, been on this healing journey. And as things come up, as God shows me different things, I definitely try to share it with other people. Not because I think I'm all that or whatever, but just want to share my healing journey because I want other people to know that if I can go on this healing journey, so can you. And you're not alone

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Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 2:06

Removing them so that they don't hinder us

And so I want those things removed. I want more of God. I want more peace. I want more joy. I want more love. And the only way to get more of those things is to get rid of the things that are opposite of that. So get rid of the bitterness. Get rid of the rage. Get rid of the anger. Get rid of the harsh words. Get rid of those things
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Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:51
So because he loves his son so much, it's like one of these situations where the son's mother, it's like the attachment to her because of the son is very uncomfortable for me. And I don't expect him to change. And that's why I'm like, listen, I'll bow out of this because you can love your son without being all on her face is what I would say to him. Right?
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Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:12

@Andrea_Speaks

But it does come from resentment. So that might have been very rambling and very circley, but I'm just trying to express where this current resentment is coming from. And I don't know. I'm not in the business of taking anybody from their kids. That's not the option. That's not it. And it's not so much that I wanted a baby mama to suffer. It's definitely not that. But at the same time, while accommodating everybody, where's my priority?
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Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:25

@DearAuntyAng

Me personally, I think it's amazing when we can see these things that are happening in our life now and connect them to things that are happening, happened in our past and see why we are having such a strong reaction to it. I think it's amazing because then it helps us to heal and it helps us to get better, and it helps us to learn more about ourselves
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Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:52

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I remember a few years ago, my dad was up here for his birthday and we all got together, went out for Hibachi, whatever. So I go to Kohl's because going, we're here for his birthday, let me buy him a gift. And I'm in the men's section. And I tell you, andrea, I started crying because I was going to get my dad something. I did get him something. But here's the thing
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Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:54

@DearAuntyAng

It is about my 50th birthday, and I don't play like that. And so she went off so bad. I didn't even go. I didn't even go because I felt uncomfortable, because I was like, the way she acting, like if anybody say anything to me, she liable to go off on them because they're talking to me. So, yeah, I'm good
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