Most cases, they love their child unconditionally, so the child can do things and not be correct, or even a father will love unconditionally. And so when we have that unconditional love. As children, we have to make sure that we don't abuse it. But then when it comes to sibling love, that love is not. It should be unconditional because that is our sibling, that is our sister or our brother
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:59
I tried to give them hugs and show them love and give them the things that I wanted but did not receive as a child. And so I thought I did, but I didn't. And so I had to respect that from her. And so now I do try to give more love and be more affectionate. Right?
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:50
But then when you look back at it, it wasn't really love. That person was doing what they were doing because you were giving love or what you thought was love to them and they were taking from you and giving you the bare minimums because they were benefiting from what you were giving. And so for me, I find it hard to receive God's love because God loves me unconditionally and he looks past everything that I've done and he still loves me and he still takes care of me
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:53
And I will tell you, the first time that I actually fell in love with a guy was when I was 18 and he was in college and I was too. We talked about marriage, kids, everything. And he actually ended up having a relationship with a girl while we're together. She got pregnant and his mom made her marry him, or made him marry her, and they ended up having three kids. And then he got married again and had one
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 3:29
Hey, Kitha, thank you so much for replying and for sharing your heart. I'm with you. I believe in love, and I know love is out there for everybody. And you and I are very. I want the same thing that you want, and I say that to people all the time. I want love where the man sees the value in me and knows that. You know what? I can't lose her
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:27
Because sometimes we get love confused. And if a person doesn't know what real love is or how to love, they can't love you. And he can't love me. And I had that in my marriage, which is why I divorced. And then I had it again. So there's a pattern and I don't know. I'm attracted to people who need help. I don't know what it is, but there's definitely a pattern that I see
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:53
I was trying to contact you and honestly that made my heart feel good because he's showing me that love, right? And letting me know that, hey, I ain't talked to you and I want to talk to you. You know what I mean? So it did, it made me feel good. Although it's not a man, quote unquote man that I'm talking to or whatever, but that did make me feel good that my dad did that