Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:59
#VoiceYourOpinion Do men (husband's) have the right to tell a woman what she can and cannot wear? What about what to do with her body? Ie pregnancy
And I did that one day. And my husband was like, why did you go change? And I said, well, you looked like you didn't like my outfit. So I went and changed it. And he was like, babe, no, it wasn't. I didn't like the outfit. He was like, I just had never seen you in that before. So I was just like, dang, where did she get that from? And I was like, oh
Robert Jenkins
@Guruball1 · 4:55
But if she was to cover that up, you would notice that she had large breasts or whatever, but she was dressed appropriately with her shape. So, yes, I believe that a husband definitely has the right to tell his wife what to wear. And she has the right to tell him what to wear. Because you could be coming out and you got on some jeans or something and stuff is too tight and your print showing. And not any woman like that
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 4:54
It is your body, and I've never had a child, so I definitely can't speak much on that. But I feel like you really should come together and really figure out what's best for both of you all honestly. But like you said, ultimately, at the end of the day, it is that woman's decision. It is. It is her decision. And so she could choose to be like, you know, I don't
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:39
And he was like, I appreciate it, and I'll know you were. He was like, but it's just showing a little bit much. No problem. Went and changed. No problem. And so I think when women get so caught up in, well, I can do what I want to do, I'm grown. When they get caught up in that, you lose out on the fact that, first of all, the man is trying to protect you, right?
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:52
If, if the man, if that, if it's the father of the child, then he has a say so as to whether or not the child is aborted. Because here's the thing. What if she's raped so then her rapist can say, no, don't abort my baby. And she's not supposed to abort it
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:49
Whether it's revealing if he's the type of man that he prefers his woman to wear, revealing clothes or non revealing, more conservative, if he's the type of man that he prefers the woman to wear, more conservative clothes. I honestly don't get into, I know I left it this on other swells before judging what a woman is going to wear, because a woman has the right to choose what she wants to wear and it has nothing to do with her seeking attention
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:23
And then if the woman truly is in a space where the person that she believes is the child's father or knows for sure is the child's father and that person has already articulated that they do not want to be involved, then okay, that creates space for that woman to make that decision. And same thing with the use of birth control. If these people are in some type of relationship, that should be a conversation on both parts
Belle 🍕
@ReySkywalker · 1:57
But I also have the mind that if you want to look good, you want to dress up, you want to kind of look sexy, then go for it. I don't know. The opinion that I would probably encourage it. I would want my partner to look sexy even after we're married. Not that I'm married or ever been married, but I feel like that's how I would be. As for abortion, that's something that I've never made up my mind about
Cheyonia Wade
@Chey · 5:00
You. So this is two very touchy topics. Oh, my. My opinion on the clothing. You said married and husband. I feel like you should know what type of woman you married. You should know how she dress, sis. And if you don't, that's the start of the problem
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:43
It would be traumatizing for him to know that he has a child that he'll never get to see grow up, a child that will not carry his legacy. Children. I believe, I firmly believe that children mean more to men than they do to women at times, because men realize, especially if they have a son, the importance of his name being carried on, his legacy being carried forth
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 5:00
They don't know how to appreciate beauty without crossing a line. And it puts me in a situation as far as a woman's body. First of all, I like to consider myself as a man who's responsible. I love children. I would never tell a woman to get rid of the child. But at my age, I don't want to father any more children. I think that'll be irresponsible and selfish
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:16
That is a little too booby. You might want to either put a shirt under it or a sweater because I respect what he thinks, and then I don't want to have something all too revealing and it's inappropriate. I don't want him to feel like my dress is inappropriate or what I have on makes him feel uncomfortable in any way. And him as well. I'll tell him what I like, and he tells me what he likes
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:53
And definitely if you're married, I think if you're married, it's a little bit different. But when you're dating, you are dating with purpose most times. And when you date a certain kind of woman or a certain kind of man, they're not going to change for you just because you got married. So if you get a woman who's dressing promiscuous or a man who is out here being a ho, then they're not going to change just because they married you
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 3:54
Hey, Keith, thank you for responding. Yeah, I totally agree. Like, me personally, I think a boyfriend has less to say than my husband. Just for me, in my opinion, my boyfriend has less to say than my husband. But even when I have these conversations with people, I always say the same thing that you said, but you knew they were like that when you were dating them and it wasn't a problem
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
And I told him I didn't want to be pregnant again because that was a lot to miscarry that child. And so I think he kind of thought I was, and so he was kind of preparing himself. But I was like, no, I'm going to keep this baby. I'm not going to do that. If we have another miscarriage, we have another miscarriage. You just know that I won't allow you to get me pregnant again