At times we talk so much about Positivity that we tended to ignore the reality. And whenever we ignore the reality, we create problems for ourselves. So positivity is not that you are have to be positive means you don't have to see the reality. You have to see the negative aspects, but still have the hope that you can change it and make your life a better one. So positivity is not about something where you will deny the reality, where you will ignore the reality