It is an opportunity for self reflection, it is an opportunity for healing. It can help us, I think, help individuals understand their own desires and where they need to put the boundary that usually a lot of people forget when they are in love, so to speak. The experience I think, with this may lead to a lot of awareness and it makes you more resilient for situations to deal with any which were unrequited. Love cannot be seen as an inspiration
And believe me, anybody can fall in love with anyone because somebody who is a loner, somebody who's very introvert, they tend to become very good love first thing. Why? Because they are the one who has the bestest one sided love stories. And if you have seen the cinema, the Bollywood of the Hollywood, you might have seen that these one sided love stories are the one who become the greatest stories. Because this is something which is not materialistic and it's very beautiful
aamna singh
@aamy · 2:37
People who are closed off or they're introverts, they're great lovers because they have so much to say and the other one probably is not ready to listening to it or give or to hear. Ideally, it is about preventing yourself from experiencing the potential joys and fulfillment that true love connection can bring into your life. And that is beautiful, I feel
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Hi. Aamna away. Good morning. One sided love. This is a very interesting topic to talk about. And according to me, it can have both positive and negative aspects. It can serve as the catalyst for personal growth, self improvement and deeper appreciation of love. But at the same time, it can also lead to a lot of emotional pain. You know, it hinders our growth because at some point of time in our life we all must have experienced one sided love
aamna singh
@aamy · 1:07
Hey, John, great to hear from you. And you seem to be seasoned honestly, but again, I would just add that, yes, the self protective behavior as humans we do have, and we know how to, you know, foster it, because that is one emotional investment. If people don't do it in terms of one sided engagement, they must do, because it is not to be seen as something which is destructive give, however painful it is
aamna singh
@aamy · 1:36
But yes, of cuss it may sound easier said than done, because by the end of the day, the interpersonal dynamics, et cetera, take over completely. So disappointment, rejection, the unfulfilled expectations and to deal with it is too much to kind of address. But truth of the matter is that with loving people around you, yes, you can navigate through and really well
Hey, Amna. What an interesting topic. So, one sided love I think it can help you grow, but it can also be detrimental in case it becomes obsessive. And yeah, we do have expectations that the other person will also reciprocate the same feelings. But that doesn't always happen. And if one can just love without any expectations whether or not they get the same feelings back from the other person then that would probably be unconditional love
Hitansh Raj
@nocturnal_talks · 4:59
You could be a writer, you could be a poet and these experience can make you so as well in order to really comprehend these things into some form. Right. Jan artist, powerful artist, has the possibility to really comprehend all these experiences that you have experienced and all the challenges that you are confronting and all the aftermath that you have actually observed into something and give it a form. And one more thing which is quite important, right
Mehnaz Amjad
@Mehnaz_Amjad · 5:00
So that's a love of completely different category to a teenager who's just attracted. And that traction is all about the physical appearance and the hormones at play. So it has just like life, it has many shades. When a complex emotion such as love goes through so many variations, we cannot really put it that it can be one sided for that one sided, whether it's good or bad, because I don't really think it is that easy
aamna singh
@aamy · 1:44
Hi. Thank you so much for your thoughts. And as I was listening to you, I was delving deeper too. So the concept, of course, is about this mindset that we're trying to understand and alter. Journey as we talk about is also about giving and receiving. So this whole thing about in our heads that we have, I'm giving so much and I'm not receiving as much as I should, is also the problem. Right?
aamna singh
@aamy · 2:42
And you are ready, prepared to acknowledge and accept and grow out of it and experience. So that's how I see it. Love is not always smooth sailing. It sure will involve conflicts, disagreements, indeed. But then again, if you don't have them, if you don't know what rejection feels like, how would you know what success is? If you don't know how ache is, how would you know what love is? So it's that kind of vibe
aamna singh
@aamy · 3:02
Hi. Thank you so much for boring in. And I cannot agree more again. Why? Because I think that when you talk Sharma, I have to say so jokes about I would, of course, just like to add that different aspects of love, the dynamics and all we have spoken about it, breakdown patterns are very different indeed
Poorna Chandra
@Dr.Nonsense · 2:49
Hey, aamna. You know, that's a very beautiful topic that you explained and also very contentious topic as well onesided love. So when I heard you put forth your thoughts, I realized that I find a very I found a very common ground where usually one sided love always good, but at times it takes a bad turn and at very specific situations. So one sided love always, most of the times, takes a bad turn
Travis W
@twalls2023 · 0:47
Yeah, one sided love is bad. Because if you are showing your partner love and affection and they're not showing you anything at all, like, how does that make you feel? Makes you feel bad. So I I think the quick answer to this question, and I think you'll hear the same amongst all of our soil peers one sided love is bad. Point blank, period
aamna singh
@aamy · 2:09
I think that makes it easier. So vocateana is Kathoras. I'm making it love by saying ari aamna sunahoga is the kind of vibe I think one should have because you should cherish the good memories, the good time that you spent with the person and also not feel heavy when you move ahead. Because if you do, then of course there's a lot of healing and a lot of other dynamics to be touched and spoken about
aamna singh
@aamy · 2:57
But then, like I said, when you gentle with yourself, you trust the healing. You know that happiness is attainable, and it's not given to you because someone would come and tell you that, oh, you deserve it. It comes from within. It is that you realize your worth, and you say, you know what? I am better off, and I know me, and I'm sure I'll be fine. Moving on
Travis W
@twalls2023 · 1:15
Because, yeah, if we're not in love with the one side of ourselves, with our health, with our physical being, with our emotional well being, how can we provide love to someone else? So I really appreciate your reply. And, yes, let's definitely stay connected. Thanks