@YaGirlNikki
jalina upchurch
@YaGirlNikki · 0:42

Getting Down on the first Date

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What up? It's your girl Nikki. And today's topic of the day getting down on the first date. Man, that's a decision that you can make on a first date. Like, how does that even come get down like that? I can't even think. But tell me what you think. Is it cool? Would you be labeled if you did it? What are your opinions? Get at your girl Nikki and Holly at me. I'll

#letdoit

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@OmegaStrange
Demarkis Klan Destine
@OmegaStrange · 4:47
And it's funny because with this particular female, I just want to get laid. And I was talking to this other girl I want to say was on tinder. I think was off of tinder. It was plenty of fish. I think it was off a tinder. And so this kick that to be honest with you, I'm just going to be honest. I lost my virginity to this girl on my first date, and I just want to get laid
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@YaGirlNikki
jalina upchurch
@YaGirlNikki · 1:55

#firstdatewentgreat

But that's just how society looks at everything, especially when it comes to women, because we've given up our precious jewel on the first date. But once again, it's like whatever chemistry you have with that person, that brings it to that you meet. And I might have forgot his name, but I'm like, oh, man, that felt so good. And what was your name again afterwards? Yeah. Let me go ahead and get your name and number
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@ILEAc22
Lee Lee
@ILEAc22 · 5:00
So I think it's really up to you, your beliefs, whatever your sexuality is, the connection and everything else. Do you believe in falling in love at first sight or do you believe that falling in love at first love making? I think it's a personal decision. I think women have the right and the power to make their own decision about that. Regardless of criticism or what society may put on us. I think that sex is fun. I think sex is part of us
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@loveladyo
Love LadyO 💋
@loveladyo · 2:50
And maybe if you ask this question 2030 years ago, you know, I'd be like, oh, girl, yeah, whatever, you know, just throw caution to the wind, make it do what they do. But today's, day and age really has me nervous. The things that I see, you know, the things I hear, I'm just very, very selective and I would just really be cautious. So with that being said, thanks for the music in the beginning
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@YaGirlNikki
jalina upchurch
@YaGirlNikki · 2:20

@ILEAc22

So I'm real particular, even if it's a first date thing, I try to make the best decisions on what I feel is right for me at the end of the day. And, yeah, even if you like you mentioned, even if you have sex on a first date, it could lead to something more. It has before
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@YaGirlNikki
jalina upchurch
@YaGirlNikki · 1:21

@loveladyo

Thank you. Love ladyo. Yes. As far as my decision on smashing on the first date, hey, I got divorced and not smashing on the first date just so I can get rid of that feeling of being my ex husband, being the last person that I laid with. I'm like, no, I got to get rid of this. But it's all your preference. As you mentioned, it's agreement up on those two people and it does happen quite often
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@ILEAc22
Lee Lee
@ILEAc22 · 1:14

@loveladyo

But obviously I was wrong. My head was in the gutter. But I thought it was funny that I kept listening because I was like, wait, what? She's going to talk about some stuff? No, loved your response and just want to let you know that made me laugh, that I was caught up in my own head. Anyway, great response. Thank you. I just wanted to share that. I thought maybe it might make you laugh and maybe Nicki, too
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@ILEAc22
Lee Lee
@ILEAc22 · 4:25

@YaGirlNikki

I feel like it's a female sex in this world and it's not only just like, oh, do you make love or smash on the first date, it's like, who do you marry? What do you make for once you're married, what's your role? You don't come out of those roles or they define all these things. Like I said, it's a fun question
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@YaGirlNikki
jalina upchurch
@YaGirlNikki · 3:37

@ILEAc22

It's also a man's decision too, to do what they want to do with that particular person and with however many people they want to do. Now you're generating a label, a name for yourself. So I still think smashing on the first date, it is all a mutual agreement between both parties. If they feel comfortable and feel that strong connection on their first date, then I don't judge. Go right ahead. Do you?
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