To to to to to to to to to to love is to love what make the world a better place, right? But sometimes that love can lead you into some weird, unsettled places. Right? But know that deep in your heart you don't settle for less than what you deserve. And I don't know. I don't know if I'm expecting feedback on what I'm saying or just wanting to share. I don't know
Fletcher Oliver III
@Mr2Extra · 2:18
I told her about my past, and then she used everything that I said against me, but that man did not approach her. That man that I was other did not approach her. So why are you thinking that I am still that same person trying to self sabotage, not believing that love is true, not believing that they're good enough for love, not believing that the way things are going and they are happy for it to truly be a blessing for them
MAXAYN G.
@WomenOfValor74 · 2:56
They have to be willing to look at themselves and understand all the ugliness within themselves and be willing to admit it, and to heal from that in order to really be able to fully give in a relationship, to fully understand someone else in a relationship, to fully love in a relationship. And let's be honest, a lot of people are unwilling to do that. We would rather point the finger. We would rather self sabotage. We would rather be in unhealthy relationships forever and call it love
Fletcher Oliver III
@Mr2Extra · 4:18
Instead of being like me, I'm going as trial and error. I'm listening to my mother telling me she wish my father would have done for her. Now I'm listening to what my sister said. She wished her boyfriends would do to know what love is or know how to treat a woman. And it shouldn't be like that. And then I'm going through trial and errors of my own mistakes. Okay, that didn't work. This work that didn't work
MAXAYN G.
@WomenOfValor74 · 2:57
They can't even talk to each other unless it's a text message and that's I feel because generations prior did not show them examples of love. And not even that. But just hugging your children, saying that you love them. I grew up in a household almost the same, like my mom. You know, she's just now starting to say, I love you. But, you know, I'm in my forties, right?
MAXAYN G.
@WomenOfValor74 · 2:00
It just makes you wonder if they Oliver III, an abusive household, and it makes me go back. And I say this all the time. When we were younger, our parents would always say, do as I say, not as I do, right. And we listen to that. But we were a different generation. The difference is that this generation is the same generation as we know. There's so many social media, so much social media and everything is just seen
Fletcher Oliver III
@Mr2Extra · 2:54
And this is what you have to realize and understand also that there are rich white people, rich Melling people that don't want to help the ones who don't have. How is this going to exist in a pioneer situation or in a place that if we want to have our own, how is this going to assist? And this is sad to say. But when we surrogate, we were stronger. It seemed like that where we are now. Why does it seem like than we are now?
MAXAYN G.
@WomenOfValor74 · 0:54
And it goes back to exactly what you said. Are they looking? But that's a whole other topic. But that's let's start a whole other conversation about that. But thank you. Thank you so much. Thank you. And look forward to talking with you some more
MAXAYN G.
@WomenOfValor74 · 1:31
Man, this topic has gone to a whole other place. And Mr. Two extra like, you know, I cannot agree with you more with everything that you said. Man, it's definitely a lot of food for thought again, I'm tongue tied because my brain tends to go faster than my mouth can, so I get stuck. But we have work to do. We have as the people, a lot of healing to do before we can really come together as a whole
Fletcher Oliver III
@Mr2Extra · 3:34
I do believe that everything that's happening to the world today is awakening for us as Mellon people in States. If you believe in the Bible or your faith is in the Bible, heard a lot of things. So I'm spiritual. I have to start it by faith, but I'm spiritual. I grabs on to other different things that I read spiritually for other spiritual books as well and corporate inside of me to use as well. But other, say, a dark nation arise
Fletcher Oliver III
@Mr2Extra · 2:28
But I've been doing it. It's been a part of my life. I guess it's all my life off and on, but six years strong because of like I said, the divorce that I was going through. I was working a lot of hours and this was the only way that I could correspond with people or get with people. I didn't turn my back on people
MAXAYN G.
@WomenOfValor74 · 0:41
Hey, Joy, I gotta laugh cause it's actually woman of Valor 74, woman of Valor 74. And I kept saying, I'd tell her to fix it, and it's perfectly okay. I know there's a lot going on, but it's only a volley, and let's do it. Let's put it together. Let me think of a few ideas, because I just see this as going on to a few of different topics
MAXAYN G.
@WomenOfValor74 · 2:01
She can be the ugliest thing on the outside, but her mentality, the way she carries herself, can make her the most prettiest person than the most beautiful person on the outside can ever be. So that's a very valid point. And thank you. And I also want to say to you, Mr. Tukstra, about thank you for sharing some of your story. And you talked about isolating yourself, right. And sometimes we can look at that in a bad way