Rohan Harit
@wolfboy90 · 1:16
Lets talk about fate and how we deal with it?
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Hey, guys. Fate. So life life happens to you. Things happen to you. Good things happen to you. Bad things happen to you. Well, what is fate? Is it just negative or is it positive? Is it everything that happens to you that may or may not be under control, but you have to accept it? But I want to know what do you do when something happens to you? Do you accept it? Do you make peace with it?
Hello Rohan Zeera very nice well and the question you asked that is if something happens in our life and how do we deal with it so it's something like that that if I share about my experience then it is like that can if something happens firstly we are under the means that around and that but after that we need to move on nothing needs to be changed so this is just my opinion that if something happens in your life you become sad or just your life become paused for that moment of time until you just come out of that situation and once you handle that situation you will just start ignoring it and means that it will not affect you in your life so you will start moving on and that will not affect you and just move on have a very nice life so this was just my experience also and what I believe now so earlier it was like that if something happens then we are in just that only and we think that for overthinking and all that situation but now it's simple just move on so thank you very much for sharing this sir have a very nice day thank you bye
shilpee bhalla
@Shilpi-Bhalla · 0:57
Hello, Rohan. First of all, nice. Well and I hope you can understand Hindi because I give my reply in Hindi. He a chih buriham I go with the flow or time is the best healer
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Sophie Sophia
@sophie_world · 1:11
Faith, destiny I think it is life. There is nothing specific called fate or destiny but it all happens in life because don't have control over most of the things and we are actually harit and sad because of the things because of the situations which are not in control not in our control actually and whatever happens in life it has a purpose. It either teaches us something or tries to tell us something negative or positive about life
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 1:16
I think that concept of amorphate is exhilarating when you're feeling like you want things to change and you feel failed, failed at that, and then surrendering. Right? It's that surrender. But it's a dangerous dance. It's a dance that's very important to me to not fall prey to sort of a listless perception like, oh, amar fate. It's fate. But the love of fate is very inviting to me, which is why Amar fate is such a great phrase
Rohan Harit
@wolfboy90 · 0:44
Hey. So this is a great layer two, layer three analysis or takeaway of the concept of pomophati. And thank you for this. It would have taken me a while to get to this point, if at all, unless I were really seeking higher level sort of takeaways or how you want to interpret more fatigue. So I really appreciate this. Yeah. Thank you. I'm going to think about this more. I'm going to remember this. Thank you
Sreeja V
@Wordsmith · 1:12
Hi, Rahel. Thank you for this. A great post. I think often we think that, you know, we are in control of everything, right? And day by day we start realizing that there are things actually we are not in control of anything, right? I think that is how the word fate has been coined, to give us that understanding that things are not in your control, then whose control is it? It's fate, right?
Naina 🏳️🌈
@chipotle69 · 2:04
And yeah, I also believe in living in the present here and now. So, yeah, basically letting go of the past can actually be really helpful. And I also think that when things like this happen, when you're going through a difficult time, picturing yourself as the main character kind of makes sense because this is happening to you because you're the main character of your life and this is character development. So, yeah, thank you for posting as well there's
Rohan Harit
@wolfboy90 · 1:00
Hey, Naina. Thank you for your response. I liked I liked it. I liked what you had to say, especially the last part where you said that, hey, you place yourself in the center of your life. You are the character. You are the pain character, and this is character development. I really liked that interpretation, and that honestly helped me process a difficult situation that I may be going through. So that is really cool
Rohan Harit
@wolfboy90 · 0:45
Hi, Sija. Thank you for your response. I listened to it and some interesting things and that you had to say that I find I found useful resistance. Getting go of that resistance, that block of resistance and how that opens you up to finding solutions, to weather it and to learn from it. I really like you've actually broken it down. What is acceptance, meanwhile, is going through faith means is this exactly
Arushi .
@Arushi321 · 1:08
We can try and minimize some of the risks, but there are eventualities that will take place. The sooner we accept this, the better. We can cope and live with the unknown. Any table, even the positive outcomes and achievements that we think that we have earned might have been pre written in our book of destiny
I mean, if I have bad days, if I have good days, it's all already written in my stars and in my feet. So my question to you is I'll give my take on fate after that, but I'll ask you two questions. I question myself generally. If everything is predecided, like fake, everything in destiny is already written. If everything is actually pre decided, then why must Scott punish us for what we do? I mean, everything's written, right?
And that is the second conversation as to how we should deal with it is by accepting it and making sure that doing the right thing for future so that your future per monthly quoted and your fees can be as good as you want
It's not about it is good or bad. It's about how we take it. The same situation can reshape a person, remove a person and the same situation can destroy another person. It's about the individual, how he takes it. So that's why first, if something happened yeah, maybe it has to happen. It was in the faith. Acceptance is important
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