In no circumstance should consensual love, compassion, happiness, joy be limited by force of law. To use force in this way is to meddle another's business to overestimate your significance. The use of force to meddle another's business, this chapter says, is to make trouble negatives, a permanent fixture in life. When we let go of that attempt to control others, that use of force, we fall into love, into light itself. Love is, of course, just a word