And while I don't begrudge anyone for trying to sell something or trying to create a product or trying to use their own lived experience to generate income or revenue, there is something to be said for the reality that no matter how hard we try, fully communicating our lived experience and attempting to package it up is going to feel cheap because it's not the thing itself. Like most chapters of the tao Te ching, this leaves us with a question to sit with, meditate on, absorb, analyze