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Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 2:12

Giving away more than you can!

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Also when you don't receive the same treatment from others you feel alone, sad, you only start to overthink negative outlook. What I'm trying to say here is that you can help others but first of all for yourself and your well being because if you can't care for yourself then you can't care for anyone else and that is because the way you treat yourself reflects how you treat others well that was it. I hope you liked it. Please do share your experiences opinions on this topic

Have you ever experienced this? Were you able to realize this? #sayitonswell #mefirst #advice

@MitsuhaMiyamizu

@Tancy_0818

I don't mean we should never help people, but there is a difference between providing support for somebody who asks and taking it upon ourselves to save somebody and make their life turn out in a way that we think it should. We are accustomed to relationships based on neediness, not real love. And love is generally confused with dependence. But in point of fact, you can only love in proportion to your capacity for independence
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Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 3:05

@MitsuhaMiyamizu

Anjali thank you so so much for replying. And you know, everything that you said was wonderful and it was really helpful. So thank you so much. And I completely agree with the things that we have said and mentioned. It was great. So yeah, you know, many of the times times we are called out for being selfish, even though we are just taking care of ourselves and you call out on us and are like, you're being so selfish, you're just thinking about yourself
@Swell
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@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@Raghavkatta
Raghav Katta
@Raghavkatta · 1:30
Like a lot of people. But then every coin has two sides and just like that, even though I heard them, it gave me happiness. Because of those decisions, decisions. I eventually felt happiness. So I guess, yeah, that's it. So he got a little weird
@Gogasusa
Gogasusa Pathasarathi
@Gogasusa · 1:26

@Tancy_0818

Hi, how are you going? I hope you're doing very well. And this well is really super strange. I know human being is totally different from that of being a human. Why? Because human being is only a species. But being a human human itself means he should have humanity, which includes love, care thoughts about the society as a social animal and all of these things. And they make a joyful, super life possible on our globe
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Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 1:17

@Raghavkatta

Raghav, thank you so, so much for replying. And you know what, you talked about that sometimes you might hurt people by taking care of yourself first. However, it gave you happiness. And I think that's the main point. I think try to hurt many people that you're not giving them attention that you used to give or that they want you to give. But the point is that you need to take care of yourself first so that you can have happiness
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Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 1:11

@Gogasusa Thank you 😊

Dear. Thank you so so much for replying and thank you so much for appreciating my twelve. I hope you liked it. I mean I'm glad you liked it, you know, out of habitat. But you know, tha and also thank you so much for the beautiful, the feelings and your opinions that you have shared on this. I'm glad that you agree with it and really like when you have love in yourself, you can give so much love and you can receive so much love
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