Because at the end of the day, if you don't get what you got to say off your chest, it's really going to have a negative effect on your mind and your heart. And you're going to find yourself literally feeling slumped, like you're going to feel down and feel depressed. Hello, not even depressed. You just feel out of it and it will be something that's not good. So basically, I'm just saying that learn how to be appreciative of your spouse
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 1:49
And then you have being in a marriage for six years, I'm sure you have six years worth of common language. I always think it's a challenge for young couples to grow together and build that vocabulary together. It's beautiful. But then they can also get stuck in their own swirl of limitations because they don't have outside advice when things are tough. So they just kind of go and get into a big rabbit hole
And I actually bought a book about the five love languages and how to tell which One is yours. So it's really interesting that this conversation had just came across my mind for me to post it. So I am definitely going to continue to keep posting things that's on my mind for that day and just expand the mindset and have people thinking and dwelling. Like, okay, maybe something turning their brain to get them to start thinking and stuff. But I appreciate you listening. God bless
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Zara Lisbon
@ZLisbon · 4:14
Hey, this is really such an important message for anyone to hear who hasn't heard it before. I've been in my first long term relationship just expressed myself and communicated and it turned out very badly. My ex didn't have good healthy communication skills, so I started shutting down and being afraid of conflict. And I associated speaking my mind with really uncomfortable conflict. And so then in my second long term relationship, I did just keep quiet
First and foremost, I congratulate you on your newly found marriage, and I hope and pray that you and your husband will grow and prosper with each other and be there for each other and do what it is you are supposed to do as husband and wife. I'm still learning or whatever. The reason why I made that post is because I feel being a married woman of six years myself, a lot has not been spoken