David Randolph
@Davelee32 · 3:33
Marriage Couples
Hello everyone. I am new to this platform, David Randolph from the North Carolina area. Have a question. I was on vacation about three weeks ago and I met a guy with a man and he's married. He's a pastor. And one thing he brought to my attention was that he's currently married. And like I said, he's a pastor of his Church and within his Church, his musician that plays the piano. Is his ex wife not judging?
But the fact that they are continuing to coexist and if it doesn't seem chaotic or yeah, if it's like hospital situation and they're actually very just kind and respectful to each other, I think that's an awesome situation to be in because I don't know, I also just feel like the people that I have been with romantically, there was a reason that I was with them and sometimes people that I saw in a romantic way become friends and that is just the best gift for me
David Randolph
@Davelee32 · 4:42
And like you said, when you were talking about your past relationship, you're still friends, and I'm still friends with the ones that I have dated in my past. But I've never been like you said, too, I've never been married. Far as in that situation, I thought it was kind of surprising and not surprising in a bad way, but surprising that wow, this is different
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Jared Blanchard
@jblanch · 2:29
I imagine that couple is I don't know how long they've been divorced. If you said that, I didn't catch that part, but I imagine that they've been able to figure out how they can be in the same room together without it making things too crazy. I also always admire that when people can figure out how to do that, especially in a setting like that, the other thing comes to mind is Church is not really easy to just leave for another
David Randolph
@Davelee32 · 3:40
But you have to have a one mind and a one heart to be able to fellowship together and love each other, love God in spite of what is going on, what they see and what they may have heard. The ex and the current wife, they can help somebody else that's going through or how they have a great testimony. Like scripture said, we overcome our testimony, the things that we have been through to experience what we went through and to come