Good morning, everyone. My name is Trina. I've decided to start this because for the past three years, maybe a little bit longer, I've been wanting to find a group of, likeminded, people, such as myself, to share thoughts, energy, so many different things and what I mean by people like myself. I am a recent empty nester. Also, I have two adult children that I had young
But at this moment now, and where I'm at in life, I'm in the same kind of place, right, where I'm trying to just discover and figure out who I am, what really fulfills me, what makes me happy. And actually starting this, making this account and just being on Swell, having these open conversations has kind of sparked something in me. It's allowed me to realize that I actually have a really real appreciation for, I guess, what it's doing
Hey, I love your username, by the way. Your handle true virgo. Anyways, I think it's so cool that, you know, I would love to be a part of this community of self of discovery. And I love the title of this, well, comfort zones because I definitely think my really good friend told me that his dad told and make your uncomfortable zones your comfort zones
We are all doing our things and figuring ourselves out, and I hope everyone is really doing good in their journey and life is gentle with them. I really like good vibes and positive energy, so I think I can relate to what you said. And the growth is really happening. It's happening, like, collectively. And you're doing a great job. Just keep pushing a girl. Thank you. Bye
Satrina Lockhart
@truuvirgo · 3:51
I was told what to do and how to do it. And as an obedient child, I did it. So this is a part of me that expression is difficult. I do know that I am a nurturer. And sometimes that's really hard because when you're a nurturer and you automatically give, give, give, people tend to take and it drains you. And not that I don't love giving. I do. I love making my family and my friends happy and comfortable
Satrina Lockhart
@truuvirgo · 5:00
But I also have a fear of failure. I've done really well in my career, rising surprisingly well. And I think at one point I felt that maybe I didn't belong there. Don't ask me why I didn't feel that. But at one point, I saw some peers that I started in my career field
Satrina Lockhart
@truuvirgo · 1:03
I really like that. And I am a person that puts quotes everywhere. So that's going to be my next quote that I'm going to post. Life begins outside of your comfort zone. I've heard that years ago, but I couldn't relate to it until now. And I love it and I love it
Satrina Lockhart
@truuvirgo · 2:46
Hello and thank you. Thank you. I just don't appreciate that. And your energy is very calming. So this is this is going to be a great experience. And it is comforting to know not alone because honestly, I felt that I was just maybe out of my mind. Oh, you're too sensitive, you wang too much or you're asking too much. But I'm only asking it from myself, not from anyone else
So I have been on quite the journey the past four years, and I am also on a little self discovery, doing a lot of that. I've taken life coaching courses. I now kind of want to go in a more spiritual journey. I'm just keeping myself open to just different ways to learn about myself
And when I left Him, I started looking into everything that happened, and I realized that I should be grateful. I should be thankful because one, God did something I would never think about doing or in a billion years, god did me a favor by removing me from situations and removing people from my life that I was so caught up on loving and caring and thinking about hurting people's feelings. Then I realized it was my sensitivity, that it was my superpower. And I embraced my sensitivity
Arushi .
@Arushi321 · 1:01
Hi. Very like this. Well, and according to me, confirmed zones is life. When you are not thinking or realizing about how you are living it. You just live your life every day without letting doubt stop you. When you you wake up in the morning and choose what to wear, you just randomly pick an outfit and go about your day. That's a comfort zones. In this scenario, getting out of your comfort zone would mean selecting an outfit normally