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Laura Monk
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Top Communication Skills

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There's about between 25 and 30 of these, and this is definitely going to take more than five minutes. So just continue listening and you can continue hearing the rest of it in the next segment. Note that both individuals need to do this, otherwise it's not nearly as effective and might I say, probably not effective at all. So make sure both people are doing these communication skills. All right, so let's get into it

🌱 Laura goes over the best communication skills. (Part 1 of 4) #Communication #Relationships #MentalHealth #Love

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πŸ‘‰πŸ» Continued (Part 2 of 4)

Healthy people can admit when they're wrong. Healthy people can say they made a mistake, and they can say, I'm sorry. Note that people's behavior is usually more about them and their inner struggle than it is about you. I will do a separate podcast explaining that more, but just try not to be defensive. The next one. Do not use absolutes. Absolutes are words such as never, always, everyone, every time and all
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Laura Monk
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πŸ‘‰πŸ» Continued (part 3 of 4)

That's contempt. And remember, contempt is one of the top five relationship killers. I did a podcast on the five relationship killers, and contempt is one of them, and that's showing contempt. All right? It also goes against one of the four pillars of a relationship. And I have a podcast about the four pillars of a relationship, and one of those is respect. And that's not showing respect to your partner. Okay, so that would be something to just discontinue doing altogether
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πŸ‘‰πŸ» Continued (Part 4 of 4)

Healthy relationships are two people being able to work through their problems. The next one ask yourself, am I being loving in this moment? Are you doing or saying the most loving thing you could be doing at that particular moment? Attitude is everything. Intentions are everything. So ask yourself, am I being loving? Very important. The next one do not stonewall. Stonewalling is like ghosting ignoring or isolating or giving the silent treatment
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Laura Monk
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πŸ‘‹πŸ» Closing remarks.

All right, so those are all of the communication tips that I have so far. If I have any other ones, I will be sure to add them to this podcast in this segment. And if you have any suggestions or tips or skills for communication tactics that have worked for you, I would be happy to have you reply and add them here so other people can hear yours too. That would be wonderful. And as always, I appreciate you being here and joining me in this podcast
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Laura. Hey Laura, first of all, thank you for mentioning the communication skills on Swell because there's something which is very detailed. I've been a communication coach myself almost for ten years in a row now and not forgetting the promotions and everything now I'm not into hardcore trainings, but yes, in a week, yes, we do 6 hours of mandatory training session for the staff and I think it helps a lot
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But even if one of the mates chooses to not fight fair, the children, seeing one parent remaining calm, using good communication skills, keeping their cool, keeping a level head is better than none at all. I always have told my children that do not let others bad behavior ruin your character. Do not join in the bad behavior. It will just make you feel it will leave you feel just devastated, emotionally exhausted. So I love this information. I appreciate it
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