Because we all have triggers, we all have wounds, we all have egos that get in the way of a healthy relationship. Every single one of us. No one is 100% completely innocent. And so the best thing we can do for any relationship is to work on ourselves and focus on ourselves and improve ourselves and turn around and do the right thing ourselves. Regardless if someone else is not doing the right thing, remember, that's their sin, not yours
Laura Monk
@ThriveLauraMonk · 4:54
Now, a more 50 50 example would be let's say both partners are heavy drinkers and or alcoholics or both people are doing some type of drugs in the relationship and being erratic and chaotic and both people are verbally abusive to each other and psychologically and emotionally abusive. And both people are being irresponsible with the kids or being emotionally immature. And let's say both people are contributing to the dysfunction of the relationship. That would be more like a 50 50 thing
I see you posting that well and your episode capture each and every detail of what I was thinking. This is so surprising. This is the third time pointing fingers and about talking about the relationship. This was so good. And I totally agree with you on this very and this very topic and this very swell of yours. It becomes so easy to point fingers when you're pointing one finger. There are three fingers are actually towards you