And whether or not they try to make contact, again, it's kind of beside the point. But I know that ultimately, you have to do what's right for you, because for some people, it's like, well, is it awkward if you see them and stuff? Yeah
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 2:59
If they're wrong, then you stand with them wrong, and you all can hash it out later, but you still stand. And they weren't so good at it, but I was. And then I think I just finally had enough. I mean, they were putting me in some really messed up situations even as an adult, so I had to choose me. Now, when I found out my dad was dying of cancer, they called me to the hospital, and I did
Pasju Kubert
@PasjuRelatively · 5:00
And in such there is a moral and ethical structure that is also relative to that person. So I try to understand more what that person is bringing to me in terms of what lessons can I learn from that person. I hate the notion of cutting a person off. However, I believe that everybody's reality is relative to them and I will do whatever it takes to honor that and to actually fight for Theo to have their relative reality honored
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:46
In terms of exes outside of my son's father, which because we have a child together, I have not ever seen the need to keep communication with an ex if we don't have children together, property together, assets together, businesses together, anything that would put us in a situation where we would need to communicate with one another. I don't see any need to communicate or keep in touch, including family. That's me. I've been like that all my life
Theo Seibold
@Thatoneweirdo · 5:00
But once again, the other side of it is the lack of friction. If she had asked me and just been like, hey, if you can try, and that's the best we can do, is try in those kind of situations, I would have been like, okay, wouldn't make any promises. I would turn the switch from f*** to s***. And I would probably say that more excuse my French
Theo Seibold
@Thatoneweirdo · 4:59
I mean, nothing creepy or anything to that effect, but everything was about her. All I ever thought about was her not even really taking care of myself. And then the other side of it is when I used to and I used to say this, now I look back, I'm like, wow, silly old me. But I used to sit there and tell people when I would gush about how much I was into her, I would like, I worship the ground she'd levitate across
Theo Seibold
@Thatoneweirdo · 4:57
And I guess on that side of age and experience and not to be negative or nihilistic, but everything goes away sooner or later. There is this constant in all things of entropy. Sooner or later, what is will no longer exist. And I also know that sometimes it's like putting down envels because dealing with this person, you focus a lot of time and energy. And of course, you're invested because you care about them, you love them. Family, friends, whoever you're with