@Tancy_0818
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 4:55

Thoughts before attending a social gathering

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I just hope this kind of thing doesn't this kind of outcome doesn't come out after talking to them and they're going to ask me about my studies. Well, they aren't really going good and whatever, you can't really answer to them properly and they do judge you like your relatives and all the so many people there are. It's a wedding obviously I mean to like a humongous crowd and that freaks me out a lot

I really can't deal with people 😅 How about you guys #sayitonswell #people #noneedtoworry

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@purnima04
purnima P
@purnima04 · 1:37
Hey Tanishka, I completely agree that attending an Indian event or a wedding is like very daunting and nerve wracking because of all the relatives in they're really not afraid to speak their minds. And the generation gap also makes it difficult because they have their own stereotypes and judgments and I don't really think we can change them and they already have that prejudices. But I completely agree with you and also the never ending comparison with other cousins
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@aviiilovesu23
Avi ❤️❤️
@aviiilovesu23 · 0:57

@Tancy_0818

And the second thing looks, I think what you think about yourself, people going to think the same about you. So make sure you feel good about yourself. We can't just re run from being judged, but it's you and only you who know about yourself. So I think others opinion doesn't matter. Just go and enjoy in your own way. All the best. Thank you. Bye
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@Tancy_0818
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 2:38

@purnima04

Because first of all, this is like the first wedding I'm going to for me, like, proper because I have literally never gone. I know that sounds so weird. I've literally never gone to any weddings. So, yeah. Thank you so much for replying to my swell. Whatever you said. Like the points you said, I really agreed with them and resonated with them. And I also helped me. Thank you so much for replying. I hope you have a great day
@Tancy_0818
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 1:28

@aviiilovesu23

Yeah, really. I think you are completely right. I think I just need to understand and other people who think kind of like me, I just need to feel good with myself, feel good about me because that's how others will see me. Because once I feel like once I start feeling good about myself, I don't think I would care what else says. And in that way, it would just make me feel like, oh, I'm just amazing. Who cares?
@Armaan_004
Armaan Husain
@Armaan_004 · 0:09

@Tancy_0818

Hello Tancy. Thank you so much for sharing and yes, I can relate this and keep posting. Thank you
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@Tancy_0818
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 0:11

@Armaan_004

Ramadan. Thank you so much for applying, and I'm glad that you can relate and that you heard my swell. So thank you so much for listening to it, and I hope you have a great day. Bye
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@Krishnaroxs
Krishna Telang
@Krishnaroxs · 1:18
Hey there, Tanishka Krishna this time. And thank you so much for inviting me to this well. And I can totally relate what you're going through. I literally I have no idea what should I wear when I'm going to social gathering. Like, I have, like, five new designated outfits that I wear in every event, like, one by one. And realtors are something that I don't avoid
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@Tancy_0818
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 1:32

@Krishnaroxs

Thank you so much for the appreciation and yeah, thank you so much for your congratulations as well. And yeah, I'm glad you replied to this bell and will give your final advice that you do mostly with your relatives. Yeah, I'll definitely try try doing that and try toward as many questions as I can, because I have no idea what I'm going into. Once again, thank you so much for that advice. Yeah, thank you so much
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