That's why it's called pain, because it's uncomfortable, it hurts. And the more we avoid it, the more we try to block it, it keeps on increasing, just like you take a medicine, but it just suppresses the symptoms. But the root cause is still there and it keeps on increasing. And the symptoms may be silent, but one day you just get this big news that it has turned into cancer or some other major disease. It could be mental, physical, spiritual
Taha Abbas
@taha_oracle · 5:00
But what happens is nowadays people are becoming more and more individualistic, right? The gender roles are changing and very few people are able to cope with that through marriage. I'm not a married person, so just to be clear, if you are, you can give a better opinion on this subject. But this is my observation that the reason why marriages don't work out more than before. It's not like people were happy
Taha Abbas
@taha_oracle · 5:00
We confuse intense feelings with love which we think that lust is just this sacred bond we have and it just slowly fades away and when the pain that was beneath that it reaches the surface you begin to hate one another sooner or later and you don't want to just look at the person's face, right? And it's interesting how things can change rapidly and infidelity is also rising because of that because people are not being true to themselves