Hey, man, how you doing? Hey, what's up? He says hi to every teacher. When he gets to me, he just looks at me, real sad with big old eyes, and he just walks off. What is that? And you know what? I really don't care. What men have to understand is that behavior like that doesn't appeal to everyone. You see, this man? His baby mama was significantly younger than him
Sometimes in a way, weird way, but from an arm's length distance, fascinated by when someone is so entitled that they can't see anything else around them or so limited in their capacity for recognizing either facial expressions or tone of voice or the subtleties of communication, that they completely miss things. On the one hand, it's funny, and on the other hand, it's disturbing. Especially when we move through the world with individuals like this. Just wow
night time
@Nighttime · 0:52
But yeah, it's very interesting when you see people who don't pick up on any social cues. Like we all can be a little oblivious. Sure, absolutely. But just completely oblivious. It's so concerning to me. But yeah, the donkey thing I should have took a picture. It was the cutest little donkey I would have got out and petted if I didn't think donkeys would have you know, donkey is a little bit aggressive. But it was just the most random thing
Should you run into the donkey again? I would love to see a photo. But in the meantime, I will just enjoy the visual that your words created and the shock of the moment
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 2:47
What I can talk about, though, is I can talk about what an abuser looks like and some of the grooming tactics that you called out, like the manipulative, I'm going to give you the sad, oh, I'm so hurt, please help me. Look, when he is a grown man, he needs to help himself
night time
@Nighttime · 2:15
I don't like to label people, but he's probably one of those things that you mentioned. But, yeah, I'm glad you called out as grooming because he's definitely a groomer. Some other stuff he said, I don't want to stay on here. God forbid I get into legal trouble. But he said some very concerning things to me, and I'm a complete stranger. Stuff that I'm like, oh, anyways, yes, I live in a major city