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Aaliyah Jones
@EighteenSquared · 4:59

Opposites Attract - Attachment Styles

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Even as I've been venturing out into the dating world, I've been practicing some of these things on my own because I kind of recognize my behaviors and I want to be healthier and have a different mindset and different set of behaviors going forward. So I've already started practicing some of these. Here's a quick one

#realtionships #Love #attachmennttheory

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@Her_Sisu
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 3:20
But yeah, once I say I'm back dating or back on the market, I tend to whoever I go out on a date with and I like how the date went. Then there's date two, there's date three, and next thing you know, I look up and it's been a year and a half, two years we've just been dating. And then I'm kind of like, oh, well, I guess we're in a relationships and it just goes from there
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@nikkirae
Nikki rae
@nikkirae · 4:04

#attachmenttheories #selflove

So I find that that probably is the most difficult part, is to find a partner that's willing to do the work with you. So I just want to know if you've had any experiences with that in your dating or even your friendships. Just coming across people that don't want to do the work and there's so much potential. But I do not like to date potential. I like to date what's in front of me
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@EighteenSquared
Aaliyah Jones
@EighteenSquared · 4:47

@Her_Sisu

Dating multiple people, if you have anxious attachments out, is super important because you really get to see, first of all, you don't get prematurely attached to one person, right? Because you're dating too many people. There's just no way you could all of a sudden, I just want this one person and I'm good. So there's that
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J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 3:59

@EighteenSquared

So because of the storm in Florida, my state that I'm in, I'm in a southeastern state not near Florida, but we're going to get a lot of that heavy rain between now, later today, end all throughout the weekend. I think Saturday is like 90% of torrential rain. So it will be great reading material to bounce back and forth between those two books as I evolve to the woman that I want to be in my singleness
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@Her_Sisu
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 0:04

@EighteenSquared

Just posting the book because, see, I moved so fast, I forgot to post it
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Aaliyah Jones
@EighteenSquared · 0:16

@Her_Sisu

Thank you. I just put my order in for this book as well, so I will check that one out once they get here because I am, like, soaking up everything I can to digest about just being a better person and understanding myself better. So thank you again
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@EighteenSquared
Aaliyah Jones
@EighteenSquared · 2:19

@nikkirae

So, yeah, that would be beautiful to have someone in your life that wants to do that work with you and kind of dig into themselves with you. Because I think how could you not appreciate that in a relationship when you're both trying to work on yourselves? That's admirable to me. I think that would be really amazing. So I might keep that in my back pocket for this potential relationship that I'm embarking on right now
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