Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 3:14
How Important Is Being Right To You
So I remember years ago having an argument with my brother, and it went on for like about ten minutes, and at the end of the ten minutes, I was like, okay, so it's important for you to be right. He stopped. I said, Is it important for you to be right right now in this instance, so we can end this and go on with our lives? And he paused
jalexus dickens
@soulcandyj · 4:35
And it wouldn't even be about, like, regular drama stuff. It would be about something I was really passionate about and I really knew something about. So I was going to tell you because you're not going to tell me something. But now I'm okay with somebody thinking I'm wrong and not wanting to know what I'm trying to tell them. I'll be like, okay. Lately I've picked up the thing of even on one of my shirts that I designed
Jack .
@zejacques · 3:14
But as I was listening to Kanye speak, it reminded me of like my father was and still is, but we're like friends now. We're adult friends now, but when I was younger, he always had to be right and he always had to know about something. And there was so many times when I caught him, I'm like, you don't even know anything about this topic, but you've got to be right about it
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 3:44
To say, I never even got back with her. Let me look at our past text trail if you saved the text or not, I don't know. But I never got back to her. Let me address that first and then go into this honestly
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:33
Right, so it's sometimes challenging to do that, but yeah, if it's something I'm passionate about and I'll talk about it and I'll listen to your point of view and try to understand, but I'm not going to give you say, oh, you're right, I'm not going to hand you over the keys to my new Mercedes, figurative speaking, I'm not going to do that, you're crazy
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 1:08
And thank you for your response because that was so refreshing. It's like, am I the only one that thinks that way? No, there's other people that think that way, too and can laugh about it and admit it. But yeah, it's all in the presentation for me. There's some people that want to be right all the time. They bring it up dead ancestors to be right. I'm like, stop. But anyway, thank you. Thank you
Try to find a way where he is still right. And I love it because it's like, hey, man, you might as well just give up. But yeah, it can be exhausting arguing with people, especially if they want to try to prove to you that they are right. I get it. Sometimes I just give up. I do not have the energy for it. It's funny because your brother probably knows you