Will it make our problems go away? Be gentle with everyone, but not it's better to try to understand the other person, to try to go into his shoes, to try to understand why the other person could have possibly done what you feel is not good. Try to be gentle and kind and once it becomes a habit, it will improve your life. This will give you compounding effects. Either you become angry and this will give you compounding effects or you become calm and composed
Anger makes a person blind for a while, so it is always better to step back and review a situation before taking any action. And anger is bad. When you think about it, anger doesn't have any real benefit for you. Its effects are all bad. It makes you feel bad. It makes you act in ways you will regret, and it hurts others. And you can have an angry attitude outwardly, but keep a peaceful attitude inwardly. Having a clear mind always bring better results