You will have to keep assuring them that you love them and you have to keep complimenting them also so they don't feel insecure over things to partner is, I believe, time consuming. But no one is perfect. We have to help each other to grow even in friendship. We get overprotective if our best friends have new friends and we feel we are not important anymore or they don't have time for us or they have changed. But obviously, that's not true
Priyal Kedia
@priyalkedia024 · 1:32
And I really don't like you're talking with that person like that because you're my best friend. So stay with me. Now that's not the overthinking, but it's an insecurity because nowadays you don't believe each and every person around you. So after a long period, you search for a portion that is your best friend. It's insecurity. Like as in security and overthinking is key and that's a s***. Seriously, thank you so much for bringing out this
vaibhav behl
@vaibhavbehl · 1:23
Okay. Obviously updates. How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How? How does Overthinking affects our relationship?
Sometimes things can get more complicated if you have tendency to overthink every little thing. This holds true for problems in your love life as well. Do you often forget about your partner's habits that you dislike or a simple argument makes you worry about the future of your relationship? Basically, your brain is constantly worrying about something or another and it is impacting your peace of mind. Well, the truth is that overthinking only does more damage than good to your relationship and you always think, what if?
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 2:31
But if you will keep on if you just not budge from the idea that they are doing something and keep on asking them so many questions and if you won't budge from this kind of attitude, they won't like it and they won't be able to take it. And it might end up in a breakup or in different relationships. It might you just kind of create problems in a relationship, then that person won't be able to share things
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 1:40
Like I said, you can't just give up and you try to comfort them. You try to reassure them. And I have done that. That has helped them disbanding any kind of misconceptions or just misconceptions and any kind of negative thoughts. We can't always give up. Obviously, there's a limit. Like I said before, if you keep on doing it, if you don't budge from that topic, that would really break your relationship. And that would be really bad
Anwesa Saha
@Anwesa · 0:37
Yeah, this was a very beautiful cell. I can totally relate with you. And you have beautifully said that no one is perfect. So we have to take we have to share the burdens of the other person. So, yeah, overtaking definitely affects a lot in our relationship. And if the partner is not willing to compromise or willing to understand it, then it turns into chaos. And over thinker always needs reassurance that whatever he or she is thinking is not true
Rashmit Kalra
@Rashmit · 0:21
Great. Swell. And I totally agree with most of your points regarding how how how how does overthinking affects our relationship? Think that sometimes in certain circumstances, overthinking can save a relationship and not even save it can save you as an individual person from a toxic relationship
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:20
Hi Rushman, I actually agree with your point, but I just didn't talk about it because I feel overthinking habits more disadvantages than advantages. But your point of view is great. So thank you for for saying that. And thank you for missing you can check out my resources too
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:36
Hi, I'm Lisa. I totally agree with you and of course it can be sometimes annoying assuring the persons every time that we love them or keep complimenting them. But we have to understand one thing that no one is perfect. If your partner is always important, you have to put a lot more efforts then it's fine because your partner can also help you. Some things that you are not perfect at. So I think when you're in a relationships it's like a partner ship
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:24
Hi Prayers I agree with you. The friendship point I added in my well was it is definitely insecurity. But what causes our insecurity? That's overthinking. You know, we overthink about this stuff and this makes us insecure about us ourselves. So yeah, that was my point. And thank you for replying myself. It was great
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:41
Hi, rapper. So my experience in Overthinking is because of myself. Like, I made a huge mistake. I think I was very mature. So what I was in a relationships with a guy who is my friend's boyfriend first. Then we got together. So he told me that she broke up with my friend because she started liking me. So it made me think, you missed it now. So I started over thinking about it. That too. And it just happened things
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:49
I'm talking about myself, of course, so I don't want to be talking about myself. So, yeah, it just makes me really annoyed that I'm actually making everyone suffer just because of me
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:32
So yeah, I also used to overthink in my relationship and of course he got annoyed and we used to fight a lot just because I overthink and just because what I think I put it on him and I don't see what's actually to fight. I think what I'm thinking is true and that's the most weird thing about our thinking
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 1:01
Hi Tanishka Sustaw thank you for replying as well and I have not moved on, but even now I'm single from two years. I meet a boy, we talk, we're vibing on actually webbing and then I start over thinking like what if it leads to what happened in my past relationship, brings our connection with that person I feel. And that happened with me. And we stopped talking because I asked used to overheat and then gets upset and stopped talking to him
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:39
Hi Tanishka. So I totally relate and agree with you. I think one of them items are all I understand Katrina arguing about some topic that they're overthinking about is just not healthy and we have to end it for ourselves and for them. I think it's just important for our mental health also. So yeah, I totally agree with you
vaibhav behl
@vaibhavbehl · 1:00
You know someone respect of your contract. Tips of user like to be honest at one point I say that if someone is cheating he could leave, he would for other people. It's not practically soldier or thinking comes when you have passed from us. I guess you were just practicing
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:32
Hi everyone. I agree with you that festival company. But I am saying that I started overthinking about it and we started having a think about it too. So I just feel sometimes, you know, overthinking is not same for everyone. What's overthinking to you is maybe not for me. And what's not overthinking for you. It's really different for everybody. Everyone's opinion is different. I've Yeah
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 1:23
But I think if you'll keep on meeting new people, there might be someone who might be able to help you out of it and just take help from your friends as well. It will be slow, but it will happen for sure I think so. Keep it up and don't feel like you're being a burden to someone or anything like that because you aren't. You're just trying to figure out your own feelings. And that's the big point
Priyal Kedia
@priyalkedia024 · 0:17
Yeah, yeah. I agree with you Simran. And like the overthinking and insecurity, they are related terms like via direct proportion of M. So thank you. Bye
Shashank Sehgal
@SSS135 · 3:21
Also, I personally feel that when there is this trust issues between two people or when there is some underlying problem which was not sorted out, which was not communicated or coordinated initially, maybe then the overthinking problems arise and this can be healed only when the trust is back. When both partners actually talk to each other and give their time, actually it raise all the differences that happened and understand each other actually. So maybe then these relationship problems and overthinking can just vanish away
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:21
Hi Tanishka it was a great advice. I also believe that we should not stop meeting new people and, you know, stop ourselves just because of we are stuck on someone else. I think if we meet new people it's it will also help us move on. So yeah, it was a greater advice. Thank you for replying on as well
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:06
Hi, Brio. Yagash. Jackie. What I was saying. Oh, thank you for replying in this village
Shruti Singh
@Shruti_Singh · 1:16
Overthinking definitely affects any relationship to the point that you're not able to discriminate between thought and action. There was a phase in life when I simply kept thinking in my head about conversations and episodes and avoid actively engaging with the people close to me whether good or bad. Any relationship ties on interaction and communication. The bottom line is we need to stop over thinking and start leaving and this is really a great swim. Thank you so much
Hey Simpson, great topic for discussion. So in my views overthinking is a really terrific problem and it can be too like many endings for a relationship and or just a partner relationship, but also it can lead in friendship or any family related relationships as well. So great topic and I totally agree with what you said
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:33
Thank you for replying very well. I also feel that Shh like if you're in a relationship with someone or if it's a friendship, anything, any kind of relationship, we need to help each other to grow. It doesn't work. Like if someone has some problems, some issues, we just don't leave them because we always say no one is perfect and no one else. So we have to help each other do we cannot just leave them
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:11
Hey account Shaw thank you for replying on myself like that writing overtime thing always leads to something negative. So I totally agree with your point and thank you for replying on myself
Rashmit Kalra
@Rashmit · 0:19
Yes, I totally agree with what you say. Well, the right point of thinking and overthinking has a very thin line, and we often confuse it with one another. And these lines are very blurred. So that is a a make or a break in a relationship. So. Yeah. Thank you for bringing up this topic
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:08
Hi Rashmit I agree with your point and thank you for replying on the seventime to make a conversation this week. Thank you
Hey Simran, I just listened to you as well. And yes, I do agree that relationships are affected if overthinking is there. Like I myself have gone through this phase relationship with my best friend where she was insecure. She think so much. But yeah, somehow we have to manage. This is life. No one is perfect. We have to help each other if we need that relationship
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:23
Hi Enem, thank you for replying on my swelling. Yeah. I also feel that everyone has that face in their life where they're going through a lot more than they can handle and I feel that we have to to support each other in that time. So I totally relate and agree with you and you can check out my other cells too
Amogh verma
@amoghxx · 2:04
Hi Simran. So what I do is I actually don't have any expectations from the life itself. Okay? I dream. I dream. I try my best to do each and everything. I work hard, but I don't expect be it be life, be it be a relationship. Because. Because when you have expectations, then the thing hurts and people come and go and things cannot always run the way we want