If they are, they don't even consider giving that person a chance. They don't want to meet them. If that's the case, I don't think I would want their approval because if they love you, wouldn't they try to understand why you want to be with that person? If they say to me that maybe the person is not right for me for some reason, I would definitely consider that and look into it
Anita Mandal
@anitamandal3749 · 3:13
Hey, Cindy, your swell was really interesting and very nice. Love marries and parents approval. Love marriage. So
Vrinda Goyal
@Itz_vrinda_dear · 1:00
Hey, Simmering, I just heard your swell. And I would like to kind of contradict it because according to me parents, karjana Zerui Hai Kyuki, they know the best. And on the point of love marriage, we should try. We should prove them. He's the right one for me. She is the right one for to you. I think that should work
Amogh verma
@amoghxx · 1:07
Hi Simran so just well was very nice and yes it's actually truth that the parents in India usually don't allow their child to have a love marriage be it being the same cast or the same religion. Yet love marriage is something which is seen as not good and actually parents believe that we are always a kid. They sometimes fail to realize that yes we grow up and everyone makes mistakes be love or be it be their life, career, anything mistakes can be made by anyone
L Kausar
@LuzuDayum · 1:00
Family approval I feel is important for a healthy relationship because at the end of the day like if you're marrying somebody then two families are getting married right? So if both families are agreed are happy then I need to have your collective bond between both of you and your families
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Vaishnavi Mittal
@vaish_2230 · 1:45
So even, you know, politics is, is incomplete without caste system, religion system, it will be shaky if the parents are satisfied with the kind of bond you have, if you have respect towards each other, if you genuinely love each other, it's not for the few benefits like you know what I mean to say. But yeah, it's not all about that
Disliking someone based on these factors is really bad, and that has more to do with your family members than your partner. How you handle it depends on what kind of relationship you have with your family, whether you still live with them, and how. If you feel with them, you might respectfully let them know that while you appreciate their feelings and you don't agree with them, you could suggest that you all try spending more time together so they can get to know your partner better
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:59
Hi Anita thank you for replying on myself. Bit healthy I think I don't believe in this. Do you think Jordan or now they've decided to extend their relationships with a marriage. That's my opinion on this. But of course parents loves us and who said we attract and then we say it's love and then we made a mistake by marrying some people. But it's not about that
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 1:22
But of course, it's not about the parents that said, for the reason I was talking about the parents that just don't understand talk about cars and they don't even want to hear you about it. They're just like, no, we'll choose your partner. I feel that's where the problem is because that is a very different concept for us. That's my topic. And your opinion was really great. It was almost similar. So Yeah
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:49
Hi Brenda, thank you for replying on my cell. I understand what you're saying and I am not at all against parents. I love my parents and everyone loves their parents and they want to make them happy too. But I will sustain the parents that don't even want to listen. They're still parents that don't even consider your marriage does not matter how the person is. So I was talking about that part. I for us. That's totally true
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:30
Hi, I am. Thank you for applying on my cell. I totally agree with you a kid and we don't know what we want, we don't know what strikers. But I just feel when it's about our life, when it's about our life partner, I feel people know what they're talking about. We will not choose some random person. Obviously, some parents expect us to choose a random person and marry them. It's a scary thought. So, Yeah
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:51
Hey, thank you for myself. Yeah, I agree with you. Like, you know, they'll know the person that we want to marry. They like the person that we want to marry. It just makes everything easy. That's the case. Parents don't agree. Even they don't tell a reason. They're like, we don't have a reason, but you can't because we will find you. So that's absolutely incorrect. And that's what I find. Annoying
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:35
Hi Rashnaire. First of all times for replying on this. Well yeah, I mean cast India main caste system, not combination. But it doesn't mean that it's right. You know, so so if your parents are not agreeing because of cast, because that totally does not matter. So that's what I was saying
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:24
Hi Rachel, thank you for replying on Mouse. Well yeah I also think that it is important that we have our families approval. Obviously it is. And like you said they are going to pay for the wedding and I everything. I was just talking about like some people, some parents does not accept what the child wants