So the previously asked question by me was, what would you like to advise the 30 year old self? And I am really looking forward to the answer. I hope you all definitely check my spell and answer to that question. And that would literally make my day because I was really sad because nobody responded to that. But okay, never mind. Everybody is busy these days. Yeah
Sheaden Thea Lobo
@Sheaden_02 · 2:40
But for me it's not overthinking when it comes to my work. It's overthinking in social situations that I tend to overthink a lot like, oh, my God, does this person like me? Oh, my God. Am I getting along with this person? Oh, my God. Is that person mad at me? A lot of things like that, and I wish I could change that sometimes, but it's really just part of who I am
Theertha Panachoor
@theertha · 2:21
And I wanted to start a conversation, but I just couldn't. I was over analyzing every single thing I did. And we sat there for 15 minutes with the most awkward silence ever. But I don't want to live a life full of what ifs what if I talk to her? What if we became friends? So I would like to change that. I would like to be more confident and I want to talk to more people
Diya Patel
@diyapatel264 · 2:00
Honestly, I don't know what it is, self confidence or what, but I'm cool with myself. There's not really anything that I really, really want to change, but maybe just the fact that I always wait for people to come to me, like, I never make the first move. I would never say Hi to somebody first. I always want people to like, come to me and then start conversations and then we'll end up being great friends and besties and whatnot?
About wanting to, you know, put forth your opinion strongly and win an argument. You know, I would probably suggest you pick somebody else who is not your parent because, you know, I'm slightly older than you new. So I can tell you with full accuracy that very few people actually can win an argument with their parents without getting beaten up or the family breaking up
And also about being confident. Just not confident. I wait for other people to do something first. I wait for someone else to start, for example, even if the class, I might know the answer. But I'm just kind of, like, shy. I don't know. Yeah. To just go forward and see it not an answer. But if someone asks me to volunteer for something, then I won't until someone I know volunteers themselves
Sohini Joarder
@Rover_Phoenix · 1:14
So in that manner, I do not regret that much, but yeah, I do wish that it would have been better if those heartbreaks those mistakes were never there would have never existed
Darshini Kumar
@Darshini · 2:21
Hi semidi. I mean, like, I'm so sorry you feel this way. I personally love all of your swells. And I know I haven't been engaging with your swells, but I really loved, you know, your previous Wells on education internships. And I'm so sorry I actually missed out your last well. And that was an amazing question
Shrinidhi Iyer
@Shrinidhiiyer · 1:24
Firstly, I would like to say that I am so grateful for all the responses you guys just made my day. Oh, my God. Was I just sat for two minutes and you guys literally came up to this and replied to me and answered the question so beautifully. And it really gave me an inspiration. And from now on, I don't think I'm alone. And there's someone who listens to me and acknowledges my questions, whatever it is, you guys are so great
Shrinidhi Iyer
@Shrinidhiiyer · 2:27
But that doesn't mean that you shouldn't love your body the way it is. I always believe in your body like yourself. If you think you deserve love from others, then why not? Your body? Your body deserves love from you, and only you can give it. So obviously, I think if you treat it well, it would treat you well as well. It would become like what you want it to be like
Shrinidhi Iyer
@Shrinidhiiyer · 2:27
I really wanted to appreciate you and I just love you. Ask swell. I just love you. You have such a great mindset. You are completely different. And there's so much to learn from you. You have this maturity that is beyond someone's capability. And that's amazing. Let me tell you, I really admire you and I really take you as an inspiration because the way I asked this question and the way you answered it was completely different
Shrinidhi Iyer
@Shrinidhiiyer · 2:36
Changing my thoughts when you explore new things, there's always something that you take back and dear, I love you. Thank you so much for replying. Actually, I was having a really bad day and there's one moment in your life that you feel that you're alone and you become so vulnerable and you just splash out and talk rubbish. But I wouldn't say rubbish because this was totally worth it
Shrinidhi Iyer
@Shrinidhiiyer · 2:56
And if you want to know the secret, I'll tell you. And that's coconut oil obviously. And also my mom used to heat the oil and put the campfire balls and they applied on my scalp and I used to keep it for like ten minutes and then wash my hair and I use particular shampoo. You contact me later for that and also, yeah, I think procrastination. Oh my God, you're just so funny
Susmitha Sathish
@Susmitha · 0:51
So this Bell is a great platform for building up a community and even my what to say biggest backfall for me also be the overthinking so I do agree with you so high frightening that's it thank you
Shrinidhi Iyer
@Shrinidhiiyer · 3:54
Trust me, because if you could reply to my swell reply to People Swell and you can like you have the ability to like, socialize and stand up on your opinion. That doesn't mean that you lack self confidence at all. And I think it's just a thought that you have about you. And if you change it, you will realize that it was really stupid of you to think like that. Really
Shrinidhi Iyer
@Shrinidhiiyer · 2:20
Yeah, getting irritated by little stuff is like, really something which everybody needs to change today, because I think the world around us is irritating today day, and we get annoyed so much. But, yeah, keeping the jokes aside, I would say that that is something we need to change. And I think dwelling over the past is something which every human does. And we all have something which we have done in the past, and we keep getting flashbacks about it, and we can't change
Shrinidhi Iyer
@Shrinidhiiyer · 3:35
I'm just so happy. I am just telling this to everybody who has replied to my audio and yeah, I was really sad. And I don't know, I was at the lowest, but you all just made my day. Really. I appreciated each one of you who replied to me. I appreciate literally everyone. And you have such a positive energy. And you just made my day. And thank you so much for replying to my skull
Shrinidhi Iyer
@Shrinidhiiyer · 0:27
Hi Susmitha, thank you so much. Your feedback about myself really made my day. And I hope I deliver some good amount of thoughts and yeah, thank you so much for being my listener. And I hope you see, see my audios when I post more. And also I would like to say that overthinking is something we all go through and yeah, high five. Thank you. Thank you so much. Love you. Bye
Susmitha Sathish
@Susmitha · 0:19
Yeah. Here. Stream with you. I'll be your listener. And whenever I hear your voice, really, I am inspired by your speech. So it's good. It's good with some amount of creativity. Also, I guess. Yes. So that's it. Thank you. Yeah. Thank you. Bye
Sohini Joarder
@Rover_Phoenix · 0:57
There is one thing I would definitely. Well, I don't really. I would. I definitely don't want to change anything about myself, but it's for the wellbeing of others. And my friends really recommend that I should say this. So. And there's something that my friends think I should change about myself is how I handle my anger