@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 1:57

Do you believe in love at first sight?

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Hi, people. So I was just laying down on my bed and just this thought occurred to me about love at first sight. So I wanted to ask you people that do you believe in it? Honestly, as much as I came to to think about it, I don't think I believe in it because I don't think it's possible to fall in love with someone instantly. I think love is a very big word

#love #attraction #whatsyourpov #sayitonswell #askswell

@sanjeev0142
Sanjeev Sharma
@sanjeev0142 · 2:55

@Shreyagarg2402

So, yeah, you I agree, you know, that love at first sight is not over. Love at first sight is basically like ah, it is attraction, ah, admiration of that individual that you look at it. And the tendency of that liking, converting into love is very high, mostly very high. So I think in all situations, in all possibilities, the precursor to love is liking. So I think that's how it starts
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 0:26

@sanjeev0142

Hi there. I completely agree with what you just said. Like at first sight, it has to be a liking, attraction or admiration like it can only grow go after time and convert into love if you are in connect with that person. I completely agree with all that you just said. Thank you for your reply. Bye
@Natureadds
Nikkeita Sharrma
@Natureadds · 2:36

@Shreyagarg2402

Hi. Shreya. I wonder what made you think this, but I'll give you my thoughts on this one. Love. It's a very powerful emotion. It's a feeling which can only be felt. I don't think love can be described in words how much ever we try it's non measurable. You cannot measure it but for what you said love at first sight. Exactly. It is not love at first sight because like I said, it's a very powerful emotion
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@pradeepmalar
Pradeep Malarvannan
@pradeepmalar · 1:26
So yeah, I actually agree to your point of view. I have similar point of view as yours. I mean, how to put it? The people who love whom you love would be your best friend at certain point of time. Not permanently, I believe in that part as well. Not forever, but there should be a point where you guys become the best friends. That's really something which build up over a long time. Over a period of time
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 1:09

@pradeepmalar

Like, I think that would be a better level of understanding between us, but that's personally what I wish. I don't know why you said that you can't be best friends with them forever at a certain time. I didn't understand that part. But I really want to be best friends with my lover. And yeah, obviously, this swell was about love at first sight. So of course, it's not love at first site. It's basically connection or attraction at first site
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 1:13

@NikKavi

Hi, Nikeeta. First of all, I really like the way you said love is a very powerful emotion. You cannot describe it involved like that's a very beautiful way to put it. Honestly, I agree it should be changed to connection and attraction at first site that would be a better form of it. And the fact that you said that you feel an instant connection with the person that's needs for you
@itssubhiii
Subhi Saxena
@itssubhiii · 1:29

@Shreyagarg2402 #sayitonswell

So a few days back, I was watching a video on YouTube and there was a doctor or scientist, I don't know, someone. She told everyone that it is scientifically possible to fall in love at first sight. And I was so confused, like, how is that possible? So I think, in my opinion, I don't believe in love at first sight and I don't think it should happen to anyone because it would be a mere attraction
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 0:50

@itssubhiii

Now. Swell. Be that's the news to me that you saw video like a doctor or scientist said that it's scientifically possible. So now I am definitely going to search about this video. I am sure about it because that's a really shocking news because most of the people actually just said that they agree with all the facts. It's not possible to fall in love at first sight. I don't think it's possible
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 1:22

@itssubhiii

Okay, shabi so I just searched on YouTube about it, like you said, and yeah, there is this scientist talkip talking about this and I am shocked as h***. Like, she said that love can be triggered like hunger. Like, it's very easy. Attachment takes time. But love can be instant. And love at first set is very easy. Just the settings has to be important. The timing has to be right. I'm shocked. I'm very speechless
@Shruti_Singh
Shruti Singh
@Shruti_Singh · 1:32

#sayitonswell

It sounds nice when we tell people when we hear it, it sounds nice. But when we talk about practicality or reality it does not fit into these things. Because even after years people question what they are born or relationship have been. So how can a person in seconds just name some bond? There could be moments when we see someone in that particular moment we just skip our heartbeat. But I do agree this happens when we skip our heartbeat or we drop a beat for our house
@Lisaroy7
Lisa Roy
@Lisaroy7 · 4:25

Love at first sight

It doesn't mean at all. Love at first, that always happens when you love someone deep from your heart, your feelings are very deep, very close to you and it doesn't return back to you. That is love at first sight. And yes, it always happens with unique and exceptional people because many people are there in this universe who get the love back in return
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@Pallavipp04
Pallavi Panda
@Pallavipp04 · 0:33
Hi, Shia. So I don't think he loved it first. Like you said, first I missed attraction. We only see their looks and we don't know that person properly, so how can we call it love.com? So, in my opinion, I don't believe love at first. Maybe it's because I don't know. But I don't believe in love at first sight
@varunkaich
Varun Aich
@varunkaich · 0:48
You know? I don't know. Like, I fall in love, like, every three months. Panda right now there is this artist, Maria Bassette. She's from Argentina, and I'm totally in love with her. But before before that, I was in love with her friend Amelia. Mourners amelia, she is awesome. Panda you got to check her out. Amelia Munis but Maria is cool. She's amazing. But she has a friend, Rochua Nunes. She's amazing
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 0:47

@Shruti_Singh

Hi. Shruti. The line that you said that it sounds really cheesy and and it sounds really beautiful at the same time, but it doesn't fit into reality and practicality. I think that is the line. I agree with the most er of what you said. It's true. It doesn't feel real. First of all, how can someone act like that? How can someone actually fall in love? Love? I think it's a big word
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 0:47

@Lisaroy7

Hello, Lisa. So honestly, it was a really, really beautiful reply. I would say, like, the way you describe loved in your sense, like how beautiful and deep this emotion is and how we should have no expectations to have it returned. It's our feeling and it's our responsibility to love the person we want to, and we cannot expect anything back in return, and we shouldn't, because that's what love it is
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 1:21

@Pallavipp04

Although honestly, one of the friends in this replied me that scientifically it is possible to fall in love at first Singh. And I was so shocked and she told me to watch a video on YouTube. So honestly, I checked that video out and it was really shocking. Because scientifically it is possible to fall in according to the scientists, that it is possible to fall in love at first Singh
@Lisaroy7
Lisa Roy
@Lisaroy7 · 3:51

@Shreyagarg2402

Hello Sri. Hello Shreya. Thank you so much that you liked my swell the way I expressed. Yes, I believe ki aka. And thank you for that, Sri lank you understood what I said and I I believe love is love. It is very sweet and very innocent. And love cannot be changed. And if you don't love someone if someone doesn't love you then that person is a person who thinks thank you once again, Shreya for liking my swell
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@Amit_Damani
Amit Damani
@Amit_Damani · 2:31

@Shreyagarg2402

Or it can be said without any meaning. There is no right or wrong way of interventing love. What I feel it is strictly personal and based on opinion. Although your love at first statement, this phrase or something has become a universal adjective for a lot of different meaning, they all bro down to the same meaning a deep feeling or love or affinity. We all grew up with our parents. We didn't fully understand the concept of love
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@SSS135
Shashank Sehgal
@SSS135 · 2:12
Either you look at that person you don't know why things are happening but you have a connection with that person from soul, from the feeling which I believe. And the second thing is that you eventually develop a relationship. So this could be the two things. The third thing is merely a crush or an attraction. It's a flames for some time. It's just a temporary feeling. So yes, I do believe love at first singh it could happen
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 0:58

@SSS135

Because love is a lot deeper than that. Than just a connection. I guess. Like you said. I understood what you said. I'm I think I have experienced it. But I named that feeling crushed personally. So what do you think?
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 0:19

@Amit_Damani

Hi, amit. So I completely agree with what you just said. I mean, most of the points and it is true that love at first sight would be more accurately said as attraction at first sight. That would be a more more accurate statement. Honestly. So, yeah. Thank you for your reply. Bye
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 0:25

@Lisaroy7

Okay. So I think you are a very romantic person. I would say, like, the things you said were honestly very filmmy like. I i don't think I ever met such an inter Austin person like this. I'm really amused by what you all just said. Yeah. Thank you for your reply. Bye
@siyagarg_110605
Siya Garg
@siyagarg_110605 · 1:06
Panda I know love takes time and we first need to understand our soul mate and have to spend more time with them and then you can fall in love but you can also spend time with the person you have found first attracted to I mean love at first sight and it could be also be your soulmate and of course feelings for that person will only deepen and develop as they're get to know them better so that's all my opinion is
@igraghurog
Raghu S
@igraghurog · 1:02
So being optimistic, I do believe that, yeah, love can happen at first side. Maybe that's not because of their loads they retire or they make up, maybe that's because of their goods. In a little time span that works up and there is no long term tenure for love. Maybe you got time to there are many people who took seven years living with each other in a living relationship and had a breakup
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 1:22

@siyagarg_110605

Hi Siya. I love how you express that you believe in it and that you can meet someone you can feel an instant connection with. But all I'm saying is that that instant attraction on that instant connection would you call that feeling a love? Wouldn't that be just attraction? Maybe it's not love at first, Singh. To be accurate, maybe it should be
@Lisaroy7
Lisa Roy
@Lisaroy7 · 4:19

@Shreyagarg2402

Ahmed, you said it's an attraction. Yes, it is an attraction. There is nowhere love at first sight. It is the attraction at first sight. Because when we see someone, when we get attracted with a person, it's completely an attraction. Because love at first singh cannot be happened. Like, how can that love happen? So that is impossible. In my words, if I say it's impossible, it's attraction at first I attraction creates love
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@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 1:05

@Lisaroy7

Hi Lisa. It was really beautiful that you said that our life is a story and we are creating new chapters every day. I have heard this before and it was really it's really it hits different when people bring it out in a conversation. Like it's something even. I also believe that our life is like a book, I would say. And we are writing different chapters today. We are uncovering different chapters today that God has written for us
@Lisaroy7
Lisa Roy
@Lisaroy7 · 2:59

@Shreyagarg2402

And the book which is created, that is created by the God that we are a human being. And as a human being we are creating a chapter every day with every version, every level, every version of stories that we are creating. So that is kind of a love or relationship. Whatever we are creating, we are creating it every day with all sorts of reasons, X-Y-Z that we have in our life
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@CheersChatty007
Chatty Girija
@CheersChatty007 · 1:37

I hated it the first time I set my eyes on it. #cheerschatty #loveatfirstsight #askswell #swellcast #beerineverything

Hey, Siya, thank you so much for inviting me to your question. And I agree with your answer. Love can never be at first sight because that's what has happened with me. I don't know about the rest and I don't know their reasons. But I'll tell you mine. Mine started off in a very bitter note. It continues to be bitter, but I accept it the way it is and I love it the way it is
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@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 0:29

@CheersChatty007

Hey, there. I loved how you just shared your experience on the topic, so I don't think anyone has done that. So I'm really grateful that I found a unique way to explain. Like, yeah, of course you believe in thumbnail and things like that has happened to you, and you have experience. Just the opposite. Hatred. First side, though, obviously you won't believe in it. By the way, thank you for your reply
@Ketkiii3
Ketki Bansode
@Ketkiii3 · 0:49
Hey, Sharma. So I really like your swell. I was thinking, like, yeah, to believe in love at first Singh. But then the way you explain that it's just attraction or maybe influence patchuation or something, then I felt, oh, yeah, it can be like that. Because you do not fall in love with someone who you have just met a million seconds ago. Because love is something that it takes time to fall in love with someone. It was a really nice swell
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 0:37

@Ketkiii3

Hi there. So, if I think that if someone had asked me randomly this question, like, do you believe in first sight? Love at first sight? So maybe I think even I would have said that I would I believe in it. But come to think about about it, because I did a lot of thinking before posting this. Swell. I think until Panda. Unless you seriously thought about the question, you may go with the cliche. So, yeah, thank you for your reply
@gauriAgarwal27
Gauri Agarwal
@gauriAgarwal27 · 0:41
Hi, Shreya. Thank you for sharing this topic. And yes, I also do believe that Love At First Singh is a nonsense. Because I don't think anyone can fall in love at first sight. They can't regret it, as you said. But nonsense Love at First Singh love is a very varun dome and it takes a lot of time, patience and a lot of things in between just to fall in love. And not just first website
@vanshchang
vansh Changrani
@vanshchang · 0:45
I also believe that we cannot love anyone at first sight. Because it is like it is impossible because we met someone for the first time. And how we can love anyone without knowing anyone. So yes, you said, right, that we can attract or we can attractive someone from the looks or the behavior or the nature. But you cannot log in at first. Singh so you are right. That what you said
@DDSRY
DDSRY .
@DDSRY · 0:43

One side love

Yeah, you are correct. Basically, in the school days, we all used to say that he is my g of daddy. She's my GFD. Is that all? Okay. But I think that was only the crush part. That I have a crush on this. And we used to say one side loan. But that was only the crush that I had a crush on someone I had like that
@Shreyagarg2402
Shreya Garg
@Shreyagarg2402 · 0:24

@gauriAgarwal27

Hi garg on a CM. I got I'm glad that you agree with me. And I feel that instead of saying that love at first Singh, we should change this method. We should not say love at first. We should rather say attraction at first singh of Christ shruti. That sounds more realistic. That can happen, obviously. But love at first Singh is cliche. Thank you for your lifetime
@garimamakhijaa
Garima Makhija
@garimamakhijaa · 0:50
But again, falling in love with the foresight is a very over exaggerated statement. And it's something that I personally do not believe in. But again, everyone's opinions to themselves and I do respect people who do believe in it
@Arushi321
Arushi .
@Arushi321 · 1:21
If suppose with a girl named Sasa. She sees a hot guy in her school. She feels strange. She thinks she's in love with that person. She dreams about him day and night, thinking that she has really fallen for him. She smiles whenever she remembers him. She stalks him. She is always busy thinking about him. This continues for like one or two weeks. And after sometimes another hot guy proposes her. She becomes really happy and she spends a lot of time with him
@akanksharai
Akanksha Rai
@akanksharai · 1:06
It's highly disrespectful to call a tree which takes thousands of hours to grow a result of first sight. The only thing which you can see in the first site is beauty, look, skin, body makeup, cloth and develop an attraction towards it. Considering attraction Panda love is the primary reason most relationships are domed so yeah I don't believe in love at first sight
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