The 🩹 won't hold. How will we decrease the load?
But as we become adults, we train ourselves to dysregulate, to conform, constrain ourselves. Like, for example, a kid standing in line will be fidgeting, moving, swinging arms, wiggling all over the place, right? They are regulating themselves as they're taking in the world. And adults, we are standing there, hardly moving, maybe looking around, internalizing whatever it is that we're feeling, thinking, experiencing, et cetera, no wonder we create this inner turmoil for ourselves