I don't know might be many of the people are there like me who are facing this problem but any number of times in the situations where I want to react I never end up reacting the way I want by nature I'm a soft spoken person so might be that is the problem of mine cause of which the way I want I'm not able to express out myself sometimes I want to be strict, sometimes I want to be upfront sometimes I want to be transferring to me but no matter how hard I try by the end of the day I just mess up everything I don't know why I am like this or I'm the only one who is like this or there are more people like me who are like this I want to do something else I plan something else stuff, some else stuff for myself and by the end of the day I do what others want me to do
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 1:36
Hey, I love your name searching as a handle and your name for life as a continuation of that handle. I guess you hearing you here makes me think that you are in it already. You're in life. You found it. Your voice is being heard. And the struggle you describe is completely a human one. We all look for meaning. We all look for how we impact others and also how we step into our own ideas of who we are
Nidhi mishra
@heynidhi · 2:09
Hey good evening first of all, I land your username searching myself a lot second thing I want to mention here is I listen to a podcast and second thing life in your podcast is you mentioned that you end up messing things so I also consider myself as a mess because I guess I have a habit I can't do things according to people if I try to do or I succeed in doing things according to them they change their needs or perception so I guess I can never match their standard means their needs so you are not the only one who is feeling things in this way and you're not messing up anything if you are making yourself happy you are doing things in the right way and the second thing I want to tell you that is at the end of the day only you matter people's opinion nobody's opinion matter so make sure that you are the writer or author of your own story write your chapters by yourself and make sure you are proud of yourself no matter what others say, what others react it should not matter to you because initially I used to life my life according to others but later I realized that it will give no fruit to you if you will life your life according to others so you must make sure that you life your life according to yourself and if you are making yourself happy that you are the the best person for yourself and for others it should not matter response