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Samantha G
@samanthag · 4:52

Exes, enmeshment and delusion

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But this week, this list two weeks have been just a nightmare. I genuinely thought the only problem I would have is if his mom came into my house demanding to take the kid. They have an arrangement and, well, she's not supposed to come over to my house. She has done some unforgivable things, so she's not welcome into my house anymore

#enmeshment #mentalhealth #boundaries #toxic #family

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Samantha G
@samanthag · 4:53

Exes, enmeshment and delusion. Part 2

You grew calm for a while and then yesterday came along. I wasn't serious and I was just at a loss. I just didn't want to involve my uncle which in retrospective I should have sooner. I just didn't want to involve him because I knew he would speak very harshly to her and I wanted to avoid that. I just really don't want anyone berating anyone else
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Samantha G
@samanthag · 3:37

Exes, enmeshment and delusion. Part 3

And if everyone says that she wants a relationship with the kids so she can still hang out with my uncle because they work together for a while. But I don't know, at this point, I just don't know. It's just so weird. Thank you for listening
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@Luchianna
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 2:17
I just think that it's more your uncle responsibility, not yours, but definitely to stand firm, stand tall, and say, look, we're not doing this. And I believe in protecting children, protecting anyone, that it's an innocent victim. And that when it's like, okay, you know what? It's not working. Let's stop this and put it into it. Curious of where the child's mother is
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Samantha G
@samanthag · 1:21
I fully agree with what you just said. It's not love at this point. It's just obsession. And you're right. It's more my uncle's responsibility than mine. I just look after the kid, and it's just a mere coincidence that he's in my house and she wants to so adamantly be around him and with the mom. I don't like to point fingers and I don't like speaking
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