Also a little about liking yourself. Most of us keep beating ourselves all the time. Things that we don't even do or things that are petty, or we just keep bashing ourselves all the time. I think I'm one of those, but I think this is not to myself. Give yourself some credit. We need to give ourselves some credit. You travel this far in life, whatever your life's journey is, and you've seen upstowns, happiness, everything you need to do that
Qamar Sultana
@DocQs · 0:22
Hi, Zeba. Yes, I think that is a good way of, you know, living life. Giving ourselves some credit will help us, you know, have to have a positive mindset and move forward in life and whatever we want to achieve. Not giving any credit will, you know, bring a lot of negativity, so yeah, I agree with it
zeba sahib
@Sahibzaaadi · 0:24
Thanks for your reply, but I think it would be great if you gave us a few of your life mantras. Let's exchange things in the way we think and maybe we can be the better versions of ourselves. Try to get some change into our life
Qamar Sultana
@DocQs · 0:24
Of course. Zeba so life is ever changing, right? So I think we also need to change, or rather fine tune our approach towards life. And that being said, I think my approach, or rather mantra to life, would would be to do my best and believe that everything else will fall in place. I hope that helps
All too often we waste time by taking ourselves too seriously or worrying about things that really do not matter, given how ephemeral our existence is. So that really is my life month. Or to share time is all you have. Use it wisely. Or to quote Gandalf from Lord of the Rings book all we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us
zeba sahib
@Sahibzaaadi · 0:36
Thank you for your reply. It's always very wise of you to give advice you've advised previously also, and it's good to hear you, it makes complete sense what you do. Of course, time and I think most of us wasted procrastinating. A lot of times you just think about doing things that you want to and you just are not able to do it. So thank you. I will try and use my time wisely
And I think it keeps evolving as you evolve as a person. For me right now, in the phase of life that I am in, it is about putting others first. The focus is more on what I can do, what I can bring to the table, rather than my thoughts, my emotions and my needs. The current situation in my life is such that I have to put others first and it is a beautiful learning curve and I embrace that with all my heart
zeba sahib
@Sahibzaaadi · 1:04
Because if you lose yourself, you kind of get into a mess. I was in a mess because I somehow lost my path. But I'm coming back on track. So I just would want to tell you that whatever you do, it's beautiful. I know keeping people first and keeping yourself behind doing things for people is beautiful. But also never lose yourself. Lots of stuff
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 1:04
And it's a skill that I honestly was not taught as a young person and that I am in making the effort to teach my son, because it's so critical and so crucial for us to do that to start from when someone is young about how powerful they are and that all the truth and resources that they need are inside of them