And since everything is temporary and not permanent, I guess all the hardships will pass too. And it's rather pointless to ask Why me? Because no one would be asking that. If you run a lottery or an exam or something, what are yours? Use over this. Yeah
Everybody has a unique and different experience in their lives that teaches them to grow and to learn and to continue to shape who they are as a person. So I think that question, Why me? Is maybe something like, what should I try and learn from this experience? Or how should I go about this in my daily life? What is it about it that's going to change who I am and change me in a positive way? What am I going to learn from this?