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Sohini Joarder
@Rover_Phoenix · 0:45

How to deal with Break-offs: Toxic vs Matured

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So today's topic, how how, how, how, how how how how to deal with breakoffs toxic with me, my best friend, Sriadash. So please give us more introduction of yourself and tell us in very short, what happened with to you

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Sreya Das
@sreya_das_ · 0:19
Hi. My name is Taras. So my break off story is I grew close with an old friend of mine. We were friends for like eight months. Then he broke off with me. He was too positive and could not to accept me being friendly with otherwise
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Sohini Joarder
@Rover_Phoenix · 1:12

Two situations

Both our people, they feel uncomfortable with us being happy and ourselves and thus cut off very rudely. May I add to Shriha's story that the person she's talking about, the guy, he actually blocked her out of nowhere without any text or anything. He just blocked her from everywhere. So the very rude and abrupt endings. And now we are two different people dealing with the same sort of situation in two different ways. So I'll start with how maturely she dealt with the situation
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Sreya Das
@sreya_das_ · 0:42

Matured way

Yeah, he blocked me from everywhere that to without any explanation. The most hurtful thing was last time there was a person who blocked me too, and I told him that I was hurt because that person also blocked me without any explanation. And he did the same. And now things are like nothing happened. He is already with some new friends and I'm fine now. But the way I I don't think so. You will ever understand. And I'm okay with the fact what happened
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Sohini Joarder
@Rover_Phoenix · 1:04

Toxic way

So, yeah, I took the other way. I did the toxic way because a person was rude and the person completely overlooked my efforts. So I cannot be as matured as you like. What you did was you tried to apologize, and you did did nothing about it. And so the person never got to experience the pain that you experienced. But for me, it's not. The person gave me pain. So that person needs to get it's like hitting a brick with a brick
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Sreya Das
@sreya_das_ · 1:00
But I tried my best. So yeah, I knew that it can happen to me also. So now I can accept the fact that he's not going to change. He is going to do things this way only. So I just don't want to take any sort of revenge or anything. I'm happy with my friends that she's
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Sohini Joarder
@Rover_Phoenix · 1:13
It was just via text, status stories and stuff that the person got to know how much I should have mentioned to them though, and what they're missing out on. So I would prefer that if a person really does wrong to you, I would say that definitely one person should use the toxic way like not the toxic way, but not just go silent. You should revert back. Like if a person has stoned, at least revert with a brick or something. Just kidding
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