Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 4:51
🍼 MOMMY FETISH 🧸 - I couldn't make this sh*t up! 😳☣️☢️ ~ Renee Attempts to Date ~ ☣️☢️🫣
But it wasn't very long lived either before it became that. I didn't see it as being aggressive about it because sometimes they'll come off like cringe. This was to me, just a conversation. But, I mean, I could be wrong. I'm sure he was looking at it a different way, but I found that when he started describing what it was he was looking for, he just mentioned that he was attracted to me
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 4:48
So is it that he's wanting to be pampered again, but then to say that he's dominating in the bedroom and sure went to sex fast, right? I already knew at that point that this is not someone I was going to pursue and really was excited to have a conversation, though I'm going to be honest, because I've never heard of this. I've heard of people wanting to date older women, cougars, whatever. You hear about that all the time
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 2:20
But I have done some things and explored that side of myself. This is new to me. Not the odipus complex because I learned about that a long time ago in college, but this particular style of the odipus complex because this isn't a full ask grown adult. I didn't know this was a thing and that it was so specific to the age thing. Of course I knew that some men are into older women, like I said. But this is a little different to me
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 2:00
And I'm sitting there thinking about the fact let's get real. If I'm sitting, this is here it comes, y'all. If I'm thinking about the fact that you are f****** with me because I could have birthed you out of the v***** you're trying to get in. And then I'm thinking, oh, f***. Dude
Carly D
@Astroality · 0:34
Girl your adventures in the dating game. I swear, you are so funny. I just love to listen to your responses to all of this. Like and I love it when you're like, is this like, Mommy fetish? Sht. And he's like, I don't know, but I have daddy issues. Like, what? Oh, my God. This is hilarious. Well, good luck. I mean, keep me posted. I want to hear all the things, but wow
I'm so curious. Like, part of me would like to sit down with this person and just ask him a bunch of questions just to understand. But, you know, I'm impressed that he revealed as much as he did. Oh, my goodness. When you said that he's trying to go back where he could have potentially come from, I think when you said it's a rabbit hole of, yes, there is so much there, and wow
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 1:26
But I mean, you got to give him credit for being out there. And I bet his little a** is embarrassed too. It's funny. Yeah. Daddy issues. Daddy issues. I mean, I've been told I have daddy issues and that's why I am not well behaved. But I have never in my life ever, ever f****** ever wanted anything to do with anybody my dad's age. I'm just putting it out there
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 3:02
And because I don't say in my profile, which is sad that this is a thing, but that I want an actual relationship, if they even see that part, because apparently many of them don't even look. But I don't say in there that what I'm looking for is a relationship. I say I don't know and then I go into it, further into the profile, that it would have potential, of course, but it would be a very slow moving train
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:57
See, I don't know. I'm looking at the screenshots, and I don't read that line. As he was looking for someone his mother's age just based on the flow of the screenshot, text combo and the emoji beside it and going back, because I know I've commented this, Renee, this is why I am a strong believer in the dating app is a venue to meet people, not to text combo forever and ever. Amen. That's a conversation
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 3:23
I included the most significant, what I thought was the most significant snap screenshots of the conversation, because there was more. I just didn't get it. I didn't think I would need to look back at it, I guess. But I'm not upset at your answers, ever. I love that you come with a different perspective. I think that's great
And it seems quite common because I've heard many people talk about the profiles not being read before they engage. And this goes for men and women talking about the opposite gender not reading the profile. So you know what I mean? This is common. And so, to me, I put the information out there on purpose so that someone can have it and look at it and read it
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 4:34
But I've started not considering it a waste of time to talk to these people because I'm not on call to the app. Like, when I feel like it, I go on there and I'll respond or whatever. And if it's a good conversation that's happening real time, I'll stick for a minute. That's what I did with this guy. But I've been asked out several, several times now, which thank God, because at least I got to ask out
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 4:54
You miss out on a lot when you don't take your time, when you don't get to know a person, when you don't take time out to find out what a person like, what the person don't like. Again, all of this stuff is just like corny in this day and time. But again, it's not everyone. It's not everyone. It's just that these are the type of the type of knuckleheads that's been responding
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 2:25
Where there's a build up, there's an anticipation. There's this whole different game of flirty to me. Haven't been out there long, but I don't know how that can exist if it goes straight into sex. That's just me. But, I mean, I'm old school in some ways and in some ways not. So, I mean, I get it. And I have no problem with people in their fetishes