I posed this question kind of to myself based on this situation today. So how do you want to be remembered? I thought about it and Theo, I feel that especially when someone passes, obviously there's funerals and it's a very somber tone, house and morning, if you will, but I think it's about celebrating the life. And the reason why I say that is because once again, we're all going to die
Becky Butler
@bc75 · 1:30
I just ask everybody if you'd be willing to pray for my brother in law. He's in a coma and bleeding out, so it's not very good. Bear with me with this swell cast. And it means to kind of
Love LadyO 💋
@loveladyo · 5:00
So when I tell my son about him and explain to him where this great name came from and who he was, I can only imagine he would share that as years go on and as he tells his story about who he is years and decades from now, my grandfather's name will be mentioned because of that. So I don't know
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:54
I am not firm yet on if or of how I would like my services to be right now. I say no to cremation, and I definitely want listen, aretha Franklin went out. I think she had didn't she have outfit changes and shoe changes? So right now, that's where I'm at. I'm like, Listen, I want that full casket. Open the bottom, d*** it. Show them my nice Louis Vuitton shoes
And it's almost as if I fade from existence in that moment after that moment for them. And then when I fade from existence from this planet, it's the same kind of thing, right? There will be these echoes. Maybe. But do any of them have to be attached to me in some sort of way, in some sort of understanding?
Theo Seibold
@Thatoneweirdo · 4:54
Like you were saying, be present in the moment that you're alive and that you're here, and you get to remember her and then think of yourself in the sense of, well, how do I want to be remembered? Like, I want these people to come together for the right reasons, not to argue about where it should be held, be true to their memory, and in turn, be true to yourself. You know?
I realized now that I may not have answered the question you are asking. And so I guess to either revise or add an addendum when it comes to that time, when I do pass, there's only one thing I want, and that is for people just to appreciate what it is to live. I've included a link here, and essentially this is something I would like people to experience. This video, this song, these visuals, it doesn't really have a connection to me
Theo Seibold
@Thatoneweirdo · 4:47
So many things going on or feel like they're going on and just so much happening around us sooner or later, it's very insurmountable or it feels that way, and it can be very crushing. And having said that, that's unfortunately part of the human experience. And I think with that you have to try to take in stride. And it's easier said than done
Theo Seibold
@Thatoneweirdo · 4:54
Hey, it's Theo. As always, thank you so much for chiming in. I greatly appreciate your input and I think I agree we all want to feel like we made some type of impact or difference, be it a little or a lot on someone. And it can be very challenging to kind of figure that out in times like this because the person who passed, I hadn't seen her for a minute