@QueerDictionary
Two queer word nerds explore the definitions and the history of gender, identity, and sexuality.
Bowie Rowan
@bowie · 2:07
Do you want better relationships? Try the Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord!
One of my favorite tools to use when having conversations about relationships with people or my partner or potential partners is the the, the, the relationship anarchy smorgasbord. It's just so clearly defines the various components or ways of relating that we have to others in the world and shows that we can choose whatever ways of relating that we want. We can create any kinds of relationships that we want with others
Charlie Olivieri
@Charlieri · 4:20
And we kind of said that we loved each other as friends, but more than that a few years back, and, yeah, it's a good feeling to have such an unconventional relationship that works so well and means that we still can be connected. But looking at this, I think it would also be useful for at least one of my long term relationships right now, like the person I live with. Jack. Yeah
Bowie Rowan
@bowie · 2:13
So I found it really useful for that in particular. And I'm curious if and when you do talk about it and set aside some time with your partner, how those conversations go if they're different than normal, if anything interesting has come to light, if it's like awkward and hard, all of those things I think would be so useful to hear