Because for so many years, for 21 years, it was all about what my spouse wanted at that time and who he was. So how do you start over? How do you find out what you liked, what you don't like? How do you heal from trauma and abuse? Like, what are your thoughts, your ideas, your suggestions? How do you feel about that? Thanks
What's the other thing I've been wanting to do for 20 years? 15 years? Ten years? You've got this. You've got this. We have a world of opportunity here, but the opportunity is only here for the people who choose to see it. And that's just the truth of the matter. So, seeking your fine to, my dear. Best of luck. Yes
But I think a lot of women go through this regardless if you're in a relationship or not, because I'm sorry, basically if you're still married or maybe you were previously married, and you just feel like you just completely lost yourself in that relationship, and now you're trying to find your identity
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Adria Simmons
@queenbodyAdria · 2:49
I will entertain them for a moment, and then I'm back to my shell and I'm back to being alone or by myself. And I know that it's not really good because sometimes in those moments where I'm alone are isolated, old things kind of creep up. So I'm working on that. So that's a really good tip as well. I've been using getting in shape fitness, wellness health to heal on my journey. And it's been amazing, really amazing
Maegan Bean
@MomstheWord · 4:20
First of all, happy birthday. I responded to one of your other swells about always prioritizing your spouse's feelings and their dreams and then kind of feeling like you're left with nothing of yourself. I really cannot pretend to know what it's like to end a relationship as long as yours, but I was in an unhealthy marriage for two years, and the relationship was eight years, so a lot of really formative time for me. And when we split