But not anymore is I actually like to do bartending at friends parties because that puts me in a social position and we're interacting over the drinks. So I'm not necessarily saying by myself, but I'm not locked into these really long conversations about God knows what, and it gives me something to do. So with all that nervous energy
So now I find myself like a party monitor, making sure everyone has a partner or is coupled up or isn't in a good group and is not feeling like they're cast it out. I kind of am going around looking for that. So I guess I went on my own rant, and I hope this helps. Thanks so much. Bye
Sontaia Briggs
@PKBriggs · 3:02
I see that I can totally see that like, you're like, s***, if I'm going to survive this experience, I got to become like the pack. I got to become like, the one. And that is legit. It's interesting because in College I actually joined a sorority like a historically black sorority, one of the Divine Nine or Great 80s. It used to be, but Divine Nine now because anyway, and most people are like, what?
Camille Smith
@meelee · 1:04
Well, I guess I'm in it. If it's like a group, I'm in it. I think I'm more afraid of the one on one group than just like a whole big group of people. I can just jump right into a whole group. Yeah
Sontaia Briggs
@PKBriggs · 1:57
Hey there, Amelia. Goodnight. Thank you for jumping on this. Swell. I actually did not go. I was tired, and I just also felt like I was going to be overwhelmed by the energy and just the effort to try to show up in a way that I have to show up when there's people I don't know, that requires more effort. So I totally didn't go. I actually don't feel bad about it
Camille Smith
@meelee · 1:56
And the young lady in the bakery said, oh, you know, we're having friends and family day tomorrow, and it's going to be great. We're going to have games. And are you going to come back and join us for that? I said, I'll think about it, but I knew I wasn't going, so I get it. It's sort of a pressure sometimes when people kind of come at you to go places, so I get it. I get it
New .E
@EasinMalik · 2:20
Then they will lead the country and request all of the intellectuals who are listening to this. Don't raise your kids, your students, your juniors teach them that never become an introvert by yourself. It is okay to become an introvert before you are listening to me. But after you're listening to me, just to go to your nearest friends and neighbors, talk to them and just socialize man, this is not a life of a human. You're not an animal
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Sontaia Briggs
@PKBriggs · 2:19
If you think of scaffold on a building, we have many layers, so it's just a layer of their scaffolding, just another way of looking at something. So while you may have an idea and burst out and say it, there's someone next to you who might think a little bit longer and then share their idea. So it's not a for or against thing or an and or it's encompassing all encompassing. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective
There's several multiplicity of reasons why, and a lot of it has to do with trauma in which we cannot override and devalue. We have to assess that and consider that. So I don't think that we can really talk in a general sense, as if it applies to all people that claim to be introverts. But we can say that trauma causes people not to engage or want to connect due to fear from the trauma. Introverts naturally don't just have fear
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@EasinMalik · 5:00
Do you know why my previous argument sounds like a bit nonsensical because the people who claimed in front of me that they are introverted, they are really the pseudo introvert. Also the reason why I was following the people who are just addicted to their phones, business, television, seasons of PT, Blinders and everything like added to the social media and everything because most of my friends who claim their sales as introverts, they are mostly doing these things