I was having a conversation on Fried Oreos most recent swell and he was talking about emotional intelligence. And then we ended up talking about interpersonal relationships and how we all get along in our lenses that we use to understand these people. And it made me think about this writing that I would do. And this writing was a way of really working out a lot of emotional things. And I was younger and dating or different relationships or whatever. Probably a hopeless romantic people will call
Paul OMahony
@omaniblog · 5:00
What I do with other people doesn't in any way reduce or alter the feelings I have for you. And I would say to myself, Maybe I wouldn't put this as bluntly as this. Look, say to myself now, looks up to you if you can accept this, if you can't accept this, fair enough, we'll stop now if you can't accept my way of being
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:21
I just became bitter, and I resented the community and platform that I was on and all that good stuff when I had recently left. It wasn't that at all. I was so out of tune and out of sync of doing it that I think I prematurely jumped in to the podcasting game again. But this time I want to just do it for me. Of course, I want to entertain people. I want more people to be involved, all that good stuff. But I want this now
Sontaia Briggs
@PKBriggs · 2:08
Hello, Paul. Good afternoon. Thank you so much for responding to this swell. And Yep, PK is, I guess you could say is my audio name radio name. I look at Swell as a new kind of radio because my my first name, it just gets to be too much with mispronunciations. And I'm sort of used to it by now, but I like, in a space, I'm like, PK. I like that. Thank you
Sontaia Briggs
@PKBriggs · 1:37
Thank you for responding to the Swell and thank you for sharing your journey and you said it and you're doing it just that the bravery of letting go of something and and then going back to get it and that's what you're doing. It was never gone. And dare I say just you didn't activate it and doing it for you. I love that because I think as creatives, not to sound like one of these obnoxious people that use the word creatives, but as creatives
Hello. Pk you're working in terms of words or directions, helping you to feel safe. Your three. Is it's not at all in my mentality? Would I dare to say that this is something very common in America? That's my impression over there. You like recipes, don't you? To feel good in life? Yes, but it doesn't say much about myself. I've made a longer post which was referenced in Limor
It helped me to access position, a role at school and among other people among my colleagues. And this was really pleasant. But whenever we progress, if we're too young, we think it's all our merit, our own merit instead of judging it, being also simply circumstances helping you. So we are proud, whereas we should just be happy. And yes, we can channel energy for some time. That's my take on everything there
To cut a long story short. Paul, it? S very difficult not to overestimate oneself and not to underestimate oneself either. I've also noticed that I very willingly speak about humility instead of speaking about underestimating oneself, which would be more objective. So yes, I do value humility. And you're speaking about vulnerability, which is more possibly more objective, too. Yes. So sorry for putting you right about arrogance. It's not my intention to put you to rights. Okay. So Greetings
Hello. Pk I've listened to your answer to Paul about arrogance and vulnerability. What came to my mind was, what does does it mean to be healthily confident, because you can very well say or feel rather than say because you don't need to say it. I am the way I am. Here I am, and you don't need to say to the other person, you have to accept it or leave it. But you can just say there. That's my take what is yours
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Sontaia Briggs
@PKBriggs · 1:44
But generally, I find homes are literally wherever you are in that moment in your way of expressing it. So thanks for seeing that. And I like this analysis of the recipe that I guess we like to have over here. Yeah. Plan. I think I mean, recipe. I love that. I love thinking about it that way as well. But yeah, I guess it's very much in American culture and Western culture