One Monkey Don’t Stop no Show ?
I care about them and I want them to know that I am them, I am there for them. But yet to require that from my family when it may be difficult, it's a hard space to wrap my head around. And I think that's part of a broken system. I think that's part of a generational trauma of families being disconnected and not unified and solidified. Because there are those changemakers outliers people like me who want more, who do more
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 2:17
But I started seeing that the chosen family around me in whatever configuration that showed up in sometimes would give me a lot more continuity in terms of support and a lot more common language of the support that actually was craving that I didn't know I needed. So I think your comment is really about paying attention to what is in front of you versus what you're craving for. Sometimes the crave is keeping you from the discovery
Two, when you talked about your family showing up their way in their language that wasn't yours and how you really possibly need to receive love and someone showing up that hit with me because I'm different in a way of with my family. I don't know if you have visited my blog or heard any of my other spell casts about me being adopted in my adoption journey, but that is the fact that I have taken years to be able to navigate