And I think that it's just a bunch of insecure people pretending that they have threesomes or pretending that they're polyamorous, meaning I'm going to meet somebody and then I don't know, is it just a synonym for dating now? Like, I'm dating around so I'm not faithful to somebody, or I just have no interest in getting intimate with somebody. But I don't know
Nick G
@NickGweezy · 4:55
Like, look, correct me if I'm wrong here, but who wants to be on a date hearing about all of your other dating problems? Or, you know, oh, I hated this guy, or whatever, whatever, it's like, are we talking about us right now, or are we just, like like, talking about how much you're a train wreck to date? I don't know
Nick G
@NickGweezy · 4:26
I mean, this even goes further where I arranged to meet my neighbor's friend who is like perpetually single. And here was the problem, right, is we talked and she was kind of like overtly sexual, but then goes on to tell me how she hates when people talk about God. And there was a time when I wanted to die and it was like it's just one of these manipulation matrices that these people tell to get you to feel bad for them and they hook you in
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:48
And I'm saying girlfriends go out and do that, and guys get mad, and next, you know, you got a problem with the wife or the girlfriend, show up. Because let's face it, if you're on those daily apps, possibly in a relationship is just like fish in a barrel
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:57
But they didn't put it in the app. It was just like, don't ask, don't tell, right? Don't ask, don't tell. But I'm only speaking with you. I might find these other girls interesting, and I might go out with them, but when it's time to get my rocks off, I'm going to come back to you. And some girls were accepting of that. But this stuff that people putting on a dating this is funny
Nick G
@NickGweezy · 5:00
And it's gotten to the point now where everybody acts like they're a celebrity and everybody thinks that they're Christian or Ronaldo or I don't know what female celebrity you want to nick, but I just have my options open in case this super hot person is drunk enough to think I'm attractive
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:42
We're nick of you guys because you've been with like ten guys and then some guys you recycled twice and now you're back with this one. You want people to believe that he was always girls, sit down, just sit out somewhere. Have you always been this rich, beautiful person that men to flock to? There's a reason why you had tinfoil relationship and it's not just the guy, right? But yeah
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:40
And I think I did this on Georgie D's post. I talked about if you look back at the history, being in a relationship was for progression, not for love. And so you want to pick your best choice, not your semi best choice. So you definitely want to make sure that you're vetting these people over a period of time
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:34
And then there's the whole component on polyamory. I believe the dating apps are giving the term polyamorous or polyamory people, polyamorous people about ad rep. And what you tend to see on the dating apps is not necessarily people who are polyamorous because a person who is polyamorous is able to have deep connections with people, deep emotional connections with people. They're able to do it with more than one person. That's the polyportion of the term. That is, a person who is polyamorous
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 0:28
I wanted to fact check myself. But yes, that's the term. Lascivious. People who like those couples you see on those dating apps, or people who say, like, I like to have sex with more than one person without the deep emotional connection, they're not actually forming relationships with these people, then that is promiscuity. Lasciviousness are the terms for that. They are not polyamorous people
Nick G
@NickGweezy · 1:40
And again, like you said, if you're a couple looking to f*** a third person, why are you putting polyamorous? It just becomes abusive terms. It's kind of like when people say, swell, I was belligerent when they were drunk. And belligerent actually means ready to start a war. So they just mean belligerent meaning like, stumble, drunk. They weren't aggressive, they weren't starting fights with people
London Reads
@Londonreads · 4:20
Well, of course, romance and all that is involved, but more so, it's more so financial agreement, especially what's going on nowadays. Some people I feel like you got a lot of people in this world, they get a relationship and they get cheated on, and then they forgive the person and that person cheats on them again. So it's like, you might as well go ahead and get into a poly relationship, you know what I'm saying?
J Twisted
@TwistedChick · 4:54
And not even with the intention of meeting someone, but of meeting people and making friends and having meaningful relationships. Not just with someone that I would be attracted to, to have sex with. Because as I get older, it's just not as important as it felt in my twenty s and thirty s. And I'm really sorry that things are the way they are for younger people
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 2:16
You are spot on, Nick. It's people, these people that want to have sex with these other people, whether they are a couple or are solo and they want to have sex with multiple people. What it is, is that they've learned a cool word, but they really don't understand the meaning of the word
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:57
That's a swell for a whole other day. How I know this? I discovered it by accident, trust me. And I quickly got off of it within the same day. I was p***** because I already paid for it. But I was like, forget this. I'm getting off of this site. What the h*** is this? But that is exactly what that site is for. It's a whole bunch of men olive
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Thank you. I totally agree. Someone that I messed with was trying to force this and get me into it. I so stood in my ground, did not let down my guard, kept my boundaries. I'm more of old school, so not with it. I appreciate you saying this. I'm happy to hear somebody else say it. Kudos. Have a blessed night