Nobody's grown up Covette has stunted everybody's mental growth and honestly, 30 is the new 20, so 40 is the new 30. Don't get married until you're like, 45 and ready to have a child and have a everything. Because the disasters I've seen over the past 15 years, I have literally never seen a successful marriage ever in my life. Not one, not neva
Nick G
@NickGweezy · 4:17
You should not be dating for marriage and say, well, within two years, I want this, this and this. Oh, my God. The bile that comes up in my stomach just thinking about these people that I've run into that have said this to me over the years. I could f****** throw up and fill a keg. Please don't do this stuff to people
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:38
And again, I'm not bashing people who are married, but the dysfunction of some of these marriages makes you say what the h*** is going on? It's just an interesting topic, but I don't say anything to people who decided to get married. That's their choice. Or people who decided to be single. I do not olive the questions. Why are you so single? Well, why are you married?
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:39
I'm huge on accountability, but I'm a firm believer that no one even knows what their name is in their twenty s. You have no business trying to be someone's spouse and the responsibilities of someone's spouse or even someone's parent in your 20s. Same for your agree 30s are the new absolutely no marriage for your 30s either. By that time you're starting to figure out what your name is. Who you are. What you want to do
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:54
And I'm going to make this person my boyfriend and that person's of my boyfriend and that person my boyfriend. I'm just going to cycle in and out of these relationships without even figuring out who I am, what I want, and taking my time
Nick G
@NickGweezy · 3:16
That's the angle that I'm taking. And she's like, oh, I believe in marriage for you. And I'm like, yeah, but I'm not being a downer here. I'm just literally saying, Olive, don't do this to yourself, especially too f****** early. And she was obviously the exact wrong person to posit this across my postulate because her parents have a successful marriage
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 3:54
It's like, no, your parents probably worked through some stuff that they didn't want to tell people about, right? Because in a successful relationship, you're working through some stuff. You know, like, in hindsight, you know, being a parent was good in theory. When I was pregnant, I envisioned all these wonderful things I wanted to do until actually they birth to three of them. And I'm like, oh, my God
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:59
Remember, some cultures, like the family has to offer something up to the bridegroom or whatever. That's what it's supposed to be about. What do you have and then what family? What do you have and how do we bring these things together and hook these people up into this arrange marriage where they get to know each other and love each other over time and they produce these children? I was just watching the latest episode, House Dragon