@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:50

Sometimes You’re Just The Placeholder

We're letting our guards down, becoming more vulnerable with one another just for this person to one day decide, okay, I've now found somebody that I want to shift this energy to, and so I'm moving on to this next person. And you're left feeling hurt. You're left feeling a little bit betrayed. You sometimes are angry at yourself for allowing yourself to get so deeply connected to someone

#love #relationship #friendship

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@Listen2AuntieL
Ledona Hentley
@Listen2AuntieL · 3:05

#love #situationships #clarity

I have a friend, my girlfriend, she's just turning 50, like myself, and what she does now is that she always, from the jump, right out of the gate with men, she says, Are you looking for a fun time or a long time? And the way that a man answers that question really tells you everything, even if he says he doesn't know. You don't want to continue to be in something with expectations and not know what you're in
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@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:43

@Listen2AuntieL

And you would think at our grown up age that men would not keep doing this or that we wouldn't keep doing this to other people, but unfortunately we do. And so no matter how old you are, navigating relationships is always very tricky and challenging territory
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Ledona Hentley
@Listen2AuntieL · 3:50

@JulyLatrice714

I just don't. And I don't know, I guess I felt like it was a part of my growth to say that we both know that this is not going anywhere. And though I do enjoy your company and you enjoy my femininity and I enjoy your masculinity yeah. But I think the thing with me is that I think spiritually, I understand that the way you start out with someone really affects your relationship
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@NubianStarshow
Nubian Star 23
@NubianStarshow · 4:01
Because if you don't know what their goals are and what they want out of a relationship and you're just going off of looks, which we most do in the beginning, then you have to force yourself to say, let me hold back when it comes down to sex, because sex can barge you to somebody. You ain't got to like them, but you just like the way they make you feel. So you go to them like a drug
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