So there's a lot of work that goes into a podcast, but these ladies just look at it as, oh, but at least you can decide when you want to be off, when you want to work on it. But in some ways, you can't really decide if you want something to be successful, if you want something to grow. You can't just treat it like a hobby
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 3:29
And then when you were referring to podcasts, I remember when I got on here initially on swell, and I opposed the question, should I go back to my podcast on YouTube that I had, but I've been missing from it for two years. So is it possible to go back? Well, I still have a following. I have an even bigger following. Not even being there for two years than I had when I was there. What does that really say?
Nidhin George 🔷
@geo_rhymes · 4:12
But ironically, even if they did find such a man, he would not be very appealing, simply because I don't think a woman, any woman, would find a man who is jobless, aimless and clueless, an appealing prospect that sounds more like a baby, a child. And I don't think they'd want to have a man child, even if he was entirely available at their disposal
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 2:55
I don't agree with their reasons, but I see that the type of people that they are, why they would want a guy who is just at home. But I don't think they're thinking realistically, there is something just awfully wrong with this generation of genders right now. It's something in the water. It's just not right. These ideals and certain things
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:46
You have that select few that it is their bread and butter. They've built up their audience to 500, 600,000 viewers. And so they're getting all these checks coming in from YouTube and Adsense and all of that. And yes, they're making money, but for the majority of people, this is something they do on the side, something they're trying to build up to get to the place of being sustainable. And so it's not as easy as it looks
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:50
You have to have, like, a transformation video that's like a minute long. And so, yeah, you can't include everything, but to make people believe that, you literally went to the gym one day and the next day you dropped 50 pounds. And it was just that easy. No, but you can remove all the unsavory parts of your story, include all of the glamorous parts that look good and are appealing to everybody else
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:01
For the vast majority, I say, about 98% of people on the earth, that is not their reality. They're not flying somewhere new every week. That's what it looks like online. But what you're seeing is a compilation of travel experiences put together in one video. You're not seeing someone taking trips every week. So, yeah, it's definitely created an illusion and a delusion amongst this generation
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 2:44
It's all the glitzy, glamorous parts of the life. Everything else is photoshopped or edited out. The person may have just got into an argument with their family member or like what happened in real life. The person is not even really doing that. They're borrowing something
Portia Bailey
@eyeSOAR · 4:49
It's really delusional a lot of times, especially as of late, and these different things that go viral, especially conversations like these that go viral, it's like, the Internet needs to be on a timeout for a month. The Internet needs to be on, like, a timeout for a month. Social media needs to be Instagram, Facebook, anywhere where you can see people like this talking and trying to make points and topics about things like this
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:59
And so this really does make me sad because there are so many people who want to be an entrepreneur and want to be able to travel and do all these things, and they think the entrepreneur life is going to get them there so quickly. But it really isn't. Like you said, it's a lot of work