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Hey, swell Cast family. Happy Thursday to each and every one of you. I was doing some reflecting today, and I think about how I hear people say, especially in the context of relationships, how certain people or certain things in relationships made them insecure. Certain people made them insecure. Certain events made them feel insecure. And I started to wonder, I'm like, can something really make you feel insecure? I honestly believe that insecurities already reside in us
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:56
If we keep doing that, then we never have an opportunity to heal because we never look at ourselves and see, okay, you know what, it's something on the inside of me that's making me react this way and let me figure out what it is because maybe this ain't everybody else. Maybe this is me
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:17
So, I mean, he didn't think he was doing me any harm. If anything, he thought he was giving me a compliment. But, gosh, it just made me want to just die on the inside. The fact that he said that, it's just oh, so, yeah, I got braces, and praise God, teeth are straight now. Everything's closed. But still, it's like, goodness. This insecurity was already there. Was already there
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Swati Sharma
@Swatiselflove · 2:46
Hi Tanya. That's such a brilliant topic that is brought up for the day. And what I personally feel is that insecurities are your own refuse of mine. And nobody is really to be held responsible for making you feel insecure small or whatever. Because as long as I understand because we all go through certain kinds of curities and insecurities, us us continue to cling on to our own security, I don't think we leave any scope for ourselves to grow
Adriane
@Royalcapability · 0:33
Hi, Tanya. I totally agree with everything that you said, and there's nothing left to be unsaid because I'll only be repeating what you said, so you are absolutely right. You know, it's it's the root, and we have to get to the root of the problem, and there's nothing else to be said. Great topic. And have a good day. Bye
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:56
He doesn't have the power to hurt your feelings. You've made that choice to hurt your own feelings. Like, you answered your question. Just still try to push the message that we are powerful beings and we have control over our contentment and happiness and our confidence. It's
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